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Coaching Circle Series



                                 BabHui Lee
                                  19Sep, 2012




       Effective Communication




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Facilitator Introduction




                                   BabHui Lee is currently Senior Director
                                   of Quality Assurance for Multek Asia.

                                   BabHui has been with Multek &
                                   Flextronics for over 10 years, holding
                                   various leadership roles in Engineering,
                                   Global Procurement and Quality.

                                   BabHui is also a certified Flextronics
                                   ELP Facilitator (bilingual – English &
                                   Chinese) since 2008.

                                   BabHui has obtained multiple eCornell
                                   certificates in Executive Leadership,
                                   High Performance Leadership, Business
                                   Leadership, Change Leadership, Project
                                   Leadership, HR Leadership, etc.

                                   BabHui is passionate about Learning &
                                   Development and sharing his
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                                   knowledge and experience freely.
Agenda                             X



• What is Communication?

• Communication Process

• Active Listening

• Communication Styles

• Communicating with DiSC Styles




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Communication Skills Overview                    X




               Effective communication skills
               are a critical element in your
               career and personal lives.

               We all must use a variety of
               communication techniques to
               both understand and be
               understood.

                “The single biggest problem in
                communication is the illusion
                that it has taken place.” --
                           George Bernard Shaw
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What if communication were not possible?
                                       X




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Frustration and Chaos!   X




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Activity: If I Could Do It Over Again…                  X


  Think of a recent example at work in which you were
  involved in a miscommunication and answer the
  following questions:

  1. Why did the miscommunication occur?
  2. What impact did it have?
  3. If you had a chance to do it over again, what
     specifically would you do differently?




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Communication - Do you know?                             X



  The average worker spends 50% of his or her time
communicating?
  Business success is 85% dependent on effective
communication and interpersonal skills?
  45% of time spent communicating is listening?
  Writing represents 9% of communication time?
  25% of all workplace mistakes are the result of poor
communication?
  A remarkable 75% of communication is non-verbal?



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X
What Is Communication?
1. A process where information Choose the correct answer.
   is exchanged between at
   least two people resulting in a
   common understanding.                X  #1


2. The successful transfer of
   information in such a way that
                                        X   #2

   is received, understood and
   correctly acted upon.
                                        X Neither

                                           Both

                  YES – Correct!


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Communication Goals                                 X




              To change behavior


  To get and give
                               To get action
    Information




       To persuade    To ensure understanding

                              Source: CGAP Direct


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Types Of Communication        X



 Mass Communication

 One-to-One Communication

 One-to-Group Communication

 Verbal Communication

 Non-Verbal Communication

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Common Communication Methods            X




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X
Communication Components
All communication includes five fundamental components.


                                         Someone who begins the
             Sender                      communication process.

                                         Someone who receives the
            Receiver                     communication.

                                         The method of sending the
       Medium or Channel                 message.

            Message                      The intent of the message.


              Effect                     The impact of the message.




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The Communication Process
• The communication process begins when a message is
  conceived by the SENDER.
• The message is then ENCODED and TRANSMITTED
  through a particular MEDIUM or CHANNEL.

                                    Idea: mental images, i.e.
                                    thoughts, opinions, emotions,
                                    pictures.
         Sender
                                    Encode: put into words, drawn,
 Idea    Encode    Transmit         etc.

                                    Transmit: telephone, letter,
                                    memo, email, body language,
                                    tone of voice, etc.



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X
The Communication Process
• The Receiver RECEIVES, DECODES and INTERPRETS
  the message.
• The Receiver then returns a signal or FEEDBACK in some
  way to indicate whether or not the message has been
  understood as the Sender intended.

                                                     Receiver
                                                                 Same
                                           Receive      Decode
                                                                 Idea




                              Feedback


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X
The Communication Process


       Sender                                   Receiver
                                                           Same
Idea   Encode   Transmit              Receive     Decode
                                                           Idea




                           Feedback




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X
The Communication Process
There are even more things at work with communication that could
challenge its effectiveness. For instance, each of us has a set of filters –
or perceptions – of how we ‘see’ the world. Then there’s the “NOISE”
factor.

           Sender                     F                   Receiver
                                      I
                                      L                                 Same
 Idea      Encode      Transmit       T         Receive     Decode
                                                                        Idea
                                      E
                                      R



                                    Noise


                                   Feedback


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X
Filters in Communication
‘Filters’ represent our perceptions of everything we encounter and are
based on the sum total of who we are.”


Filters impact:
1. How we see others,
2. How we interpret
    situations, and
3. How we act and feel.

“We don't see things as
they are, we see them
as we are.”
            ~ Anaïs Nin

                                                       Courtesy of the FutureWork Institute




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X
Noise Factor in Communication




      Internal Noise        External Noise

    Resistance to the    Actual sound:
    message and/or the   pitch, tone,
    sender:              language level,
    opinions,            accents,
    assumptions,         interruptions,
    perceptions,         distractions, etc.
    attitudes, etc.


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X
The Communication Process
At any point along the communication process, there is a possibility of
disruption. In order for communication to be complete, the sender gets
FEEDBACK indicating that the message sent was received as it was
intended.

          Sender                    F                  Receiver
                                    I
                                    L                               Same
 Idea      Encode    Transmit       T        Receive     Decode
                                                                    Idea
                                    E
                                    R



                                  Noise


                                Feedback


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Communication   X




   Barriers




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X




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Listening Behaviors X
   • Hearing vs. Listening
       • Active Listening

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                      Document




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Roadblocks to Effective Listening                             X


• Emotional interference
• Defensiveness
• Hearing only facts and not feelings
• Not seeking clarification
• Hearing what is expected instead of what is said
• Stereotyping
• The ‘halo’ effect (i.e., the tendency for something to be
  influenced by a loosely associated factor)
• Automatic dismissal
  (e.g., “We’ve never done it that way before”)
• Resistance to change


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Tips for Active Listening                       X



•   Make eye contact
•   Give verbal or non-verbal acknowledgement
•   Adjust your body posture
•   Clear your mind
•   Avoid distracting behaviors




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Communication Variables                     Adobe Acrobat
                                              Document
                                                            X


• Differences between sender and receiver
  - Attitudes
  - Information levels
  - Communication skills
  - Social systems
  - Sensory channel

• Differences in previous experiences
• Cultural differences
• Differences in communication styles




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Communication Styles   X




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DiSC Behavioral Styles




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                        C         S



           http://www.123test.com/disc-personality-test/

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X
DiSC Personality Test (Sample Report)




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X
Dominance Style Characteristics
• Value control.
• Driven by a strong inner
  need to lead/achieve
  results.
• Take-charge people who
  seek to reach goals.
• Focus on results rather
  than process.
• Tend to downplay feelings
  and emotions.
• Sometimes viewed as
  “unfeeling.”


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X
Influence Style Characteristics

                      • Crave action and an
                        energetic pace.
                      • Seek opportunities to “shine”
                        or to be “on stage.”
                      • Relationships take priority
                        over tasks.
                      • Focus is on outcomes.
                      • Try to influence others with
                        optimism and friendliness.
                      • Recognition and approval
                        are strong motivators.


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X
Steadiness Style Characteristics
• Easy going and relationship
  focused.
• Value security.
• Work to maintain stable
  relationships/environments.
• Find change difficult.
• Reliable and good at follow-
  through.
• Appreciate respect from others.
• Value others’ respect of them.




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Conscientious Style Characteristics
                    • Goal-oriented; driven to be
                      precise and controlled.
                    • Can seem uncomfortable at
                      expressing or dealing with
                      emotions.
                    • Logical thinkers who value
                      accuracy and organization.
                    • Like to think through tasks
                      before starting.
                    • Feel a need to do things
                      themselves.
                    • Perfectionists and strong
                      desire for things to be “right.”


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X
Think About It…
When we work with people whose
natural communication style is
different than our own, what are the
potential conflicts?




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X
Communicating with Dominance Styles

 Dominance Styles…                      So you …
 • are concerned with being #1              support, guide, maintain self
 • think logically                          esteem
 • want facts and highlights                display reasoning
 • strive for results                       provide concise data
 • like changes                             agree on goal, then get out of the
 • prefer to delegate                       way
 • want notice of accomplishments           allow them to “do their own thing”
 • need to be in charge                     modify workload focus
 • reflect a tendency toward conflict       compliment on achievements
                                            set parameters, let them take
                                            lead
                                            argue with facts, not emotion


                       Focus On The Facts First!
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X
Communicating with Influence Styles

influence Styles…                     So you …
• are concerned with approval             show them you admire/like them
• seek enthusiastic situations            be optimistic/upbeat setting
• think emotionally                       support their feelings
• want general expectations               focus on big picture
• need contact with people                interact/participate with them
• like change/innovation                  vary routine
• want others to notice them              compliment them often
• need help getting organized             do it together
• dislike conflict                        avoid arguing on a personal basis
• like action and stimulation             keep up a fast, lively pace
• want feedback that they look good       provide positive feedback



                    Focus On The Relationship First!
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X
Communicating with Steadiness Styles

Steadiness Styles…                  So you …
• are concerned with stability          show how to minimize risk
• think logically                       show reasoning
• want documentation/facts              provide data, proof
• like personal involvement             demonstrate personal interest
• need step-by-step sequence            walk through instructions
• want notice of perseverance           compliment steady follow-thru
• avoid risks/changes                   give personal assurances
• dislike conflict                      act non-aggressively
• accommodate others                    allow them to support others
• like calmness/peace                   provide friendly atmosphere
• enjoy teamwork                        provide cooperative group
• want to be appreciated                acknowledge their help/manner


                   Focus On The Relationship First!
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X
Communicating with Conscientious Styles

Conscientious Styles…                 So you …
• think logically                         use an indirect, non-threatening
                                          approach
• seek data
                                          show reasoning
• need to know the process
                                          give it in writing
• use caution
                                          provide explanation/rationale
• want notice of their accuracy
                                          allow them to think, inquire, check
• gravitate toward quality control
                                          compliment them on thoroughness
• avoid conflict
                                          let them assess/be involved in
• need to be right
                                          process
• like to contemplate
                                          use tact to gain
• do not like aggressive approaches       clarification/assistance
                                          allow time to find “correct” answer
                                          tell them the “why” and “how”


                      Focus On The Facts First!
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Summary                            X



• What is Communication?

• Communication Process

• Active Listening

• Communication Styles

• Communicating with DiSC Styles




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