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CONCEPTUAL STRESS
        UNDERSTANDING AND MANAGEMENT

                               BY



                 Shriniwas Janardan Kashalikar.

           PRAYER [THE CONTENT AND CONCEPT]
                    SHRI GANESHAAYA NAMAH
  Before beginning to write, I offer my prayers to Lord Shri Ganesha
    who is the God of realization for enabling me to express health
             promoting content with accuracy in this book.
      The meaning of the expression “God of realization” is very
    interesting and profound. In the nature there are various divine
‘powers’ or ‘energies’ and express or manifest themselves in different
forms. Lord Ganesh is the source of experience of pure knowledge in
a human being. It is therefore customary and appropriate to pray Lord
               Ganesh before starting any writing work.
   Since the realization of truth is the prerequisite to accurate vision,
  decision, commensurate desire and intention to act, conviction and
 strength to act, accurate action, it is appropriate to pray Lord Ganesh
 before starting any work. These all constitute HOLISTIC HEALTH
                           or SWADHARMA.
                              Hence it is said
 VAKRATUNDA MAHAAKAAYA SURYAKOTISAMAPRABHA
      NIRVIGHNAM KURU ME DEVA SARVAKARYESHU
                               SARVADAA
                              Which means
O Lord Ganesha with beautifully twisted trunk and gigantic body you
 are bright like billions of suns. Please very work of mine devoid of
                          deficiency and defeat.
                                    **
 Now I offer my prayers to the goddess of knowledge i. e. Sarasvati.
 Because she gives the ability to transform realization into thoughts
and thoughts into language, either spoken or written. She also gives
 the ability to grasp various forms of art and knowledge and their
                    expression in different forms.
                            Hence I pray
       YAAKUNDENDUTUSHAARHAARDHAVALAA
                 YASHUBHRAVASTRAVRUTAA
        YAAVEENAAVAR DANDAMANDITAKARAA
                 YAASHVETAPADMAASANAA
                    YAABRAHMAACHYUTA
  SHANKLARAPRABHUTIBHIRDEVAISADAAVANDITAA
        SAA MAM PAATU SARASVATI BHAGAVATI
                 NIHSHESHAJAADYAAPAHAA
                           Which means
   Oh goddess Sarasvati who is fair complexioned like flowers of
 KUNDA [JASMINE], moon and snow showers, clad and in white
clothes with hands adorned by VEENA-the string instrument [which
     produces divine melodies], sitting on the white lotus being
 worshipped by BRAHMAA, ACHYUTA, SHANKARA and other
  deities and one who destroys the shackling fossilizing ignorance,
     please protect me [from ignorance and evils born out of it]!
                   I also pray
                  SHULKAAM
   BRAHMAVICHAARASAARAPARAMAMAADYAM
              JAGADVYAAPINEEM
    VEENAPUSTAKADHAARINEEM ABHAYADAAM
           JADYANDHAKAARAPAHAAM
    HASTE SPHAATIKAMALIKAAM VIDADHATEEM
           PADMAASANESANSTHITAAM
  VANDETAAM PARAMESHVAREEM BHAGAVATEEM
        BUDDHIPRADAAM SHAARADAAM
                           Which means
Oh enlightening Shaarada goddess, who is fair complexioned means
   full of SATVAGUNA [conscientiousness], the essence of the
knowledge of self realization, the source of energies encompassing
 the whole universe, holding the VEENA and book, destroyer of
darkness of ignorance and thereby making you fearless, holding the
 rosary of SPHATIK beads, sitting on lotus I prostrate in front of you
                      and offer my salutations to you.
                     Now I also pray the guru principle.
         GURURBRAHMAA GURURVISHNU GURURDEVO
                              MAHESHVARAA
 GURUH SAKSHAAT PARABRAHMA TASMAI SHRI GURUVE
                                   NAMAH
    I refer this by the word principle because it is a cosmic principle
     BRAHMA or the origin of the universe which embodies all the
   qualities of the three deities BRAHMA, VISHNU and MAHESH
       representing three GUNAS viz. SATVA, RAJA and TAMA.
      SATVA is nothing else but crystal clear conscience governed
                     perceptions. Feelings and actions.
           RAJA is ego driven perceptions, feelings and actions
and TAMA means ignorance driven perceptions, feelings and actions.
    This principle manifests through either human body, scriptures,
     through dreams and even through various manifestations in the
   nature! The guru principle is said to embody three deities or three
      gunas because a loving guru takes beyond the three gunas viz.
                        SATVA, RAJA and TAMA
         because guru takes us from the ignorance to knowledge.
   Now I pray goddess Gauri. I reverently offer my salutations to her
   and pray her to bless me for success of this book in every possible
 way. May she bless all those concerned with this book in every walk
                        of life in every possible way.
                SARVAMANGAL MAANGALYE SHIVE
                       SARVAARTHAASADHIKE
         SHARANYE TRYAMBAKE GAURI NARAYANEEM
                                NAMOSTUTE
                             Which means
  Gauri, Narayani, Tryambaka are the names of the divine energy
 which manifests in the form of regulator of fulfilling elegance and
success in every activity. I prostrate in front and salute her again and
                                 again.
After these prayers I offer my prayers to Lord Narayana who is
 traditionally worshipped in our family, for His blessings. He is the
supreme consciousness. In fact it is He who is responsible for all this
                         that is being written
               JANGAMAAJANGAMAMCHEDAM
                JAGANNAARAYANODBHAVAM
          YOGODNYAANAM TATHAA SAANKHYAM
                VIDYAASHILPAADIKARMA CHA
                           Which means
Plants and animals have developed from NARAYANA in as much as
YOGA, DNYAANA, SAANKHYA, ARTS, CRAFTS are originated
                            from Him.
                          Hence I wish to pray
         NAMOSTVANATAAYA SAHASRAMURTAYE
        SAHASRAPAADAATKSHISHIRORUBAAHAVE
      SAHASRANAAMNE PURUSHAAYA SHAASHVATE
           SAHASRAKOTI YUGADHAARINE NAMAH
  I offer my humble salutations, to Ananta [Lord Narayana ] which
  means the infinite, who has thousands of forms, thousands of feet,
thousands of eyes, thousands of heads, thousands of chests, thousands
of arms, thousands of names and who is eternal PURUSHA [supreme
   consciousness] occupying thousands of billions of epochs called
                                  YUGA.
 Now I pray all the yogis, saints, prophets and the rishis. They are the
manifestations or incarnations of the supreme consciousness and have
 been enlightening, empowering and guiding the mankind for ages. I
   pray that they bless this book and enable it to serve the mankind
              Lastly I pray for the welfare of the universe.
        SARVETRAH SUKHINAH SANTU SARVE SANTU
                             NIRAMAYAH
         SARVE BHADRANI PASHYANTU MA KASCHIT
                        DUKKHAMAPNUYAT
[Let everyone be happy, healthy and well meaning and let there be no
                          grief in anyone’s life]
With this feeling underlying this book I offer the book with utmost
                reverence at the lotus feet of Lord Narayana.
Many of us may have strong objection to prayers. They may feel that
        such praying is an indication of weakness, diffidence and
 dependence. According to some this can be even paranoid behavior.
 Even as I have no intention to change this point of view [as that can
happen only through one’s experience and not by mere explanations],
  it is still thought appropriate to give explanation which may prove
     helpful to the concerned ones. However it is not expected that
 anybody agrees with whatever is written. It is always a healthy thing
to read, think over and verify the contents rather than accepting them
                      without scrutiny and verification.
These prayers are meant for getting strength from the infinite cosmic
  powers, of which we are manifestations or extensions. The cosmic
  energies, gods and goddesses can be compared to the powerhouses
     and we can be compared with the electric bulbs, which are the
            extensions of the electricity from the powerhouses.
In case there are blocks in the wiring, then the bulbs will not illumine
 adequately. In such case the only way to illumine the bulb would be
  remove the blocks and facilitate free flow of electricity. In case of
  human beings ‘blocks’ develop due to natural development of ego,
   pettiness and superficial values. These ‘blocks’ can be effectively
   removed by the prayers and also by chanting or remembering the
                                name of God.
We can take another example. We are leaves of a life tree. Because of
ego we tend to identify ourselves as isolated, alienated, disconnected,
   discrete, disjointed ‘leaves’! This makes us weak, petty, arrogant,
       diffident, cynical, depressed and frustrated. Prayers are like
    reestablishing the link with roots of the tree of which we are the
                                    leaves!
DEDICATION

      PRAYENA DEVA MUNAYAH SWAVIMUKTIKAMA
    MAUNAM CHARANTI VIJANENA PARARTHA NISHTHA
      NAITANVIHAYA KRUPANAN SWAVIMUKTI EKO
   NANYAM TADASYA SHARANAM BHRAMATONUPASHYE


    Oh Lord, in general, most of the great saints, sages, yogis and rishis
   renounce the world, live in seclusion and observe silence in search of
                   salvation/liberation for themselves.

Since you are the only savior for my billions of brothers and since they can
not get salvation from anywhere else [in case I do not seek it from you for
                                  them],
 I do not want to be a mean person to seek liberation for myself alone.

         So says the great Pralhada as is articulated in SHRIMAT
                            BHAGAVATAM.

 This is especially important in view of the fact that though stress [and
   hence conceptual stress also] is a universal phenomenon, it is not
  understood by everyone. Only a few fortunate ones would be able to
 understand and manage it. It is their privilege and DHARMA to help
others in managing stress. In this regard it is interesting to note that in
     these days neither individual liberation nor individual stress
management are possible! They are intricately and inseparably bound
 with the liberation and stress management of billions others, who can
neither read, nor understand this book and who can not manage stress.
  Bhagiratha [who is said to have brought the Ganges from heaven to
  the earth] and Prometheus [who is said to have stolen fire from the
gods] to save the mankind and many others have set examples for us to
                                  follow.
                                     *
                                     *
                      I DEDICATE THIS BOOK
TO
THE ETERNAL LIGHT THAT HAS BEEN ENLIVENING THIS
 UNIVERSE AND ENLIGHTENING THE LIFE OF MILLIONS
               THROUGH MILENNIA
                      AND
                      TO
          MY LATE MOTHER AND FATHER
   [THROUGH WHOM MY LIFE (and hence this work also)
                  MANIFESTED]

          SHRINIWAS JANARDAN KASHALIKAR



  CONTENTS
  Prayer
  Dedication




  Meaning of conceptual stress




  Necessity to write this book
Why should you read this book?



Importance of managing conceptual stress effectively

Concepts related to healthy living
I] Concept of holistic health
II] Healthy aging
III] Concept of Good Morning
III] Concept of Observance of Silence [Mauna]
IV] Concept of Drinking Water the Sap of Life
VI] The Concept of Bath
VII] Massage
VIII] Walking
IX] Concept of composed mind.

Concepts related individual life
1.Concept of physical pain
2. How to overcome the shame of being non-normal?
3.How to overcome the fear and shame of disease?
4. How to reduce the unpleasantness of death?
5. How to overcome loneliness?
6. How can we overcome negative or depressive thoughts?
7.How to overcome jealousy?
8. How to overcome frustration?
9. Why do we indulge in or refrain from things and repent later?

Concepts related to social life
i] How can we overcome the stress caused by conceptual chaos in the
field of education?
ii] Stress resulting from inadequate understanding of the consumer
interest


iv] Conceptual confusion about communalism
vi] How to manage the stress resulting from inadequate grasp of ever
growing
      corruption?
 vii] Employees-employer relations
 v] Understanding causes of strikes in public hospitals in India
 viii] Concept Of Functioning of a Municipal Body

Concepts of abstract nature
A] Is it true that KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA, justifies injustice,
exploitation and inequality?
B] Concepts of superstition, faith and rationality
C] Is it useful to find out the degree of pleasure or sadness?
D] We are taught to obey. But is it always correct to obey blindly?
E] Ideology
F] Non Violence
G] Concepts of charity and swadharma
H] What is satisfactory living?




I] Family life




J] Miracles
K] The Concept of Holistic Medicine
L] Practical utility of understanding death and immortality
M] Are there any other concepts, which give rise to the fear and
     unpleasantness of death?
     N] It is said that the ultimate aim of human life is MOKSHA or
     LIBERATION from the cycle of birth and death. If this is true then
     how do we explain the reincarnation of Lord Vishnu? How can we
     explain the reincarnation re-incarnation of Krishna [He assures in
     Geeta that he reincarnates in every epoch]? Or even for that matter
     Dattatreya?
     O] Understanding of first eight chapters of Geeta found useful in the
     management of conceptual stress.




Meaning of conceptual stress
Conceptual stress is not a separate entity. It is a part of over all process of
stress. We can also call it intellectual stress. In modern life where the pace
of change of life has become very fast, we are unable to understand the
rapidly emerging new issues in life. Our conceptual framework gets
shattered and we become helpless and miserable. This state of helplessness
and misery and consequent deleterious effects on individual and social life,
constitute conceptual stress and it has acquired menacing dimensions!

Morality, ethics, customs, traditions, conventions etc. i.e. guidelines of past
in every sphere of life are being proved inadequate and also irrelevant.

To give a simple example, cancer phobia [excessive and unfounded fear
of cancer] is nothing but a case of conceptual stress. Cancer phobia many
times results from inappropriate view, feelings and actions [conceptual
deficiency] about the phenomenon of cancer, its nature, its symptoms such
as pain and its outcome.
What are the symptoms of cancer phobia?

A patient of cancer phobia always suspects that he/she has cancer,
whenever he gets pain. If he/she gets repeated pain, in a particular organ
then he/she starts suspecting cancer of that particular part! This leads to
morbid fear, anxiety, worry, and sense of helplessness.

Conceptual stress involves defective or deficient perception, deficient
ideas, inaccurate thoughts, disproportionate emotions, unreasonable
instincts and unnatural physical needs, which are associated with
abnormal electrophysiological interactions between various neurons in
the brain. The secretion of different neurotransmitters, secretion of
hormones and metabolic activities are abnormal and involve deleterious
effects on personal and social health.

Conceptual stress is minimal or absent if you are totally ignorant and
adjusted to a self centered, petty, indifferent, reflexive, passive, and
stereotyped life style like a lower animal.

Conceptual stress is maximum when your perspective assumes global
dimension, your feelings reach out to the miseries of the millions and your
thinking reaches out to the mysteries of millennia! Your conceptual stress
magnifies when your heart starts bleeding for suffering in even the remotest
part of the world and even to the suffering of animals! Your conceptual
stress worsens when you actually start searching for solutions as you come
across conflicting opinions. This stress gets further multiplied when you
start coming close to the solutions and begin to encounter difficulty in
expressing them. This becomes more disturbing when you see every one
turning away from you and your solutions being proved ineffective, though
not inaccurate! Since you are not proved wrong, you do not find valid
reason also to abandon your views and work. You land in an agonizing
question, “Why you are ineffective if you are accurate?”. At this point the
very foundation of your existence begins to shake and your existence
almost gets uprooted! Then gradually if and when you begin to see
increasing matching, agreement, or harmony between your life and the
universe [which in most cases would constitute changes in the direction
of global welfare] your conceptual stress begins to get relieved
simultaneously as that of the others!

It is true that we manage to ignore some questions, and rightly so e.g.
mathematical problems need not as a routine, bother a biologist.
Similarly, problems in one’s educational career are best dealt with in
the text-books and guides of those subjects and or solved by the expert
teachers in that particular field!

But there are issues which are a] unavoidable, b] are faced by most of
us, c] affect our personal and family lives immensely and d] affect the
well being of the society immensely and produce CONCEPTUAL OR
INTELLECTUAL STRESS in almost every one!

Necessity to write this book?
There are thousands of books in the market on personality development,
making money, being effective, making friends, winning people and so on.
There are thousands of books, which deal with psychology, philosophy,
religion, ethics, yoga, meditation, prophets, saints and such topics. A lot of
information on these subjects is available on electronic media and Internet
also. In fact the explosion of information on such subjects is mind
boggling. Further, the information technology, internet, email, fax, ISD,
and other modalities of satellite transmission have taken this information to
a large majority of people, who hitherto did not have the access to this
information. But there are three reasons because of which I decided to write
this book.
The first is that it is usually not possible to precisely find out what would
guide accurately in conceptual stress. This is because, there are many
views and most of them are apparently conflicting and confusing. Efforts to
search for information and get answers to day to day problems prove either
futile or in fact add to confusion and frustration and prove
counterproductive.

The second reason is that majority of this information is characteristically
restricted to superficial aspects of human life. Because it is superficial, it is
incapable of improving the understanding of life. This hollow and impotent
information therefore is devoid of the content and power to enable readers
to live with inner growth, magnanimity, fulfillment, harmony and
happiness. In fact it makes you miserable. It stimulates your desire to
become rich, famous, powerful, etc. and creates a sense of perpetual and
ever increasing demands. This gives a feeling of deficiency. As a result,
discontent and jealousy grow. Glorification of ordinary people for
commercial, political and other benefits, sugar coated implicit
indoctrination of pettiness, misleading advertisements can and do create
self-pity. There are advertisements, which implicitly drive home a
ridiculous message that you do not love your children because you do not
give them a particular soap, or chocolate or something of that sort! There
are other advertisements which proclaim albeit indirectly that you are
clumsy if you do not wear a particular shirt, stupid if you do not smoke a
particular cigarette or out of fashion if you do not drink a particular
whisky! One can quote hundreds of examples of such surreptitiously brutal
and criminal information, which humiliates you!
Another damaging impact of this information is that it gives an impression
that sanity has no place in the future. Thus it can shake your faith in
goodness and sanity! It can tear your senses apart and confuse you. It can
shatter your faith in yourselves and destroy your hopes in any bright future
for yourselves, or the society! As a result, it can force you into spending
hours, days, weeks, months and even years after years in utter selfishness
marked by rabid material pursuits and criminal activities or utter
depression, bitterness and frustration, marked by suicidal activities.
The third reason is that everyone has conceptual stress to a greater or
lesser extent and also frank or subconscious desire to manage it effectively.

As I went on writing, it gave me immense satisfaction and vigor in spite of
the fact that such writing involves total personal consumption. I am sure
that it would rejuvenate you and help you to help yourself and also the
others in need!

Why should you read this book?
Even after reading the foregoing you still may have a question, “Why
should we read this book?”. This question is quite appropriate. You may
ask and quite justifiably so, even more questions such as the following.
“Why should we not give preference to our business, service, domestic
work, or things such as part time additional job, shares or anything that
either earns or saves money for us? Why should we not opt for some
wonderful things such as hiking, trekking, swimming, jogging, physical
exercise etc, which are good for physical health? If there is extra time then
why should we not get involved in some charity work? Lastly, if we have
inclination for things such as music, socialization, good food, good
company, good drinks, etc. which relax us, then why should not we indulge
in them and become happy?”

The answer to these questions is simple.
It is for you to decide whether to read this book with priority or not and in
fact even whether to read it at all or not!

But think of issues such as education, child labor, charity, physical pain,
fear of diseases, loneliness, fear and grief of death and so many such
things. These are issues, which influence individual as well as social life.
These are such issues that that neither can you ignore them, nor can you
escape from them. Added to this is the fact that you do not have enough
time and energy to solve them. They are the ones, which if not understood
properly, can cause you conceptual stress. In view of the fact that they
would go on nagging you through out, spoil your health and that of the
family and society, you would definitely welcome if you are offered
solutions for them. It is precisely such solutions that I have offered in
this book for which you may want to read this book!
It so happened that I got involved in the issues, which are apparently
unrelated to individual life [but actually are not], in addition to those in
my personal and family life. Further, I could spend time, energy, money
and everything one could, to study them on priority basis. Hence I feel
privileged to have got the solutions to my satisfaction, which now appear
so simple! I feel ecstatic to offer them to you. I do not intend to entangle
you in any complex, tedious, scholastic, boring and exasperating
intellectual exercise, but directly offer the solutions. I am sure you will
experience clarity, harmony, peace, love, romance, buoyancy and
enthusiasm while reading this book! You would experience happiness of
overcoming the instinctual suffocation, emotional turbulence,
behavioral disharmony, intellectual confusion and inappropriateness
and ineffectiveness of action in society.
This is my promise based on my first hand experience.
However, you may not believe in me at this juncture but there is no
harm in verifying my statement; for which you have to read at least the
next page!

Importance of managing conceptual stress effectively

The only way of effective stress management is to understand the nature,
causes, dimensions, mechanisms, effects and principles of management of
stress. Basically this involves improvement in cognition, affect and
conation. In other words, this involves improvement in our views, our
feelings and our actions. In my book, “STRESS, UNDERSTANDING
AND MANAGEMENT, A WAY TO TOTAL WELL BEING”, I have
discussed these things.

But having studied the basics required in stress management one looks
forward for greater efficiency.

For more effective management of stress, management of conceptual
stress is essential and for that, further improvement in views, feelings
and actions is essential. For this, it is imperative to study issues, such as
those mentioned on page XII, which affect private as well as public life
and especially those issues, which are pertinent to our fields.
Please remember, WITHOUT EVOLVING VIEWS, FEELINGS AND
ACTIONS WITH RESPECT TO ISSUES IN INDIVIDUAL AS WELL
AS SOCIAL LIFE, PERTINENT TO YOUR FIELD, STRESS IN
GENERAL AND CONCEPTUAL STRESS IN PARTICULAR CAN
NOT BE MANGED EFFECTIVELY.
I have discussed some issues in my previous book but in brief.
In this book we will consider such several issues of immediate
relevance in day to day lives. I am sure this will pave a way for
conceptual clarity and thereby more efficient stress management.
Unfortunately many of us try frantically to manage stress [and
conceptual stress], without this understanding and as a result, create
and perpetuate misery for themselves and the society. All short cuts
marketed under the disguise of stress management can at times be
temporarily useful but ultimately prove useless and even
counterproductive in personal and social life.

Now let us see why effective stress [and conceptual stress] management is
essential.

Every one of us has stress. Thus a student may have stress of examination
or competition and a doctor may have a stress of treating a difficult disease.
A farmer may have stress of drought and a mill worker may have stress of
lay off. A Prime Minister of a country may have stress of a crucial decision
making such as nuclear testing, dealing with religious sentiments or flak
from media etc.

It has to be appreciated that just as the causes of the stress vary, just in the
same way the implications of the stress also vary. Thus the adverse effects
of the ineffective management of stress in individual life as well social life
vary. Thus the student may avoid appearing from examination, the doctor
may shirk from his duty, the farmer may commit suicide and the mill
worker rendered jobless may be forced into illegal underworld activities.
The wrong decision of a Prime Minister may influence not only his life but
also that of the generations after generations of one or more countries, in
adverse ways.
This clearly illustrates that the adverse effects of stress are not restricted to
one’s own body and one’s own family. The ineffective management of
stress by political leaders, industrial leaders, union leaders, media leaders,
religious leaders and in general people involved in decision making can
adversely affect various walks of life and even the future generations
directly or indirectly. This is comparable to most dangerous and rapidly
spreading pandemic infectious disease. The patient suffering from such
infectious disease, if does not undergo proper treatment, then he/she would
harm himself/herself as well as the others.

Effective management of stress [and conceptual stress] therefore, is
vitally important for one’s own well being and that of the society as
well

CONCEPTS OF HEALTHY LIVING

      CONCEPT OF HOLISTIC HEALTH
      Holistic health in adult human beings is nothing else but ongoing
      movement towards increasingly accurate perception, appropriate
      feelings and precise actions, with increasing pleasure, power,
      prosperity and profundity.
      Perception, feelings and actions are also expressed by terms
      Cognition, Affect and Conation respectively.
      A] Cognition
      In short, cognition means processing [appraisal] of a huge variety of
      sensations impinging on us. You can appreciate the importance of this
      faculty if you consider the two important facts viz. 24 hours of the
      day and twelve months of the year, every one of us gets sensory
      inputs in the form of physical, instinctual, emotional and intellectual
      stimuli, which may be painful or pleasurable in the form of a variety
      of personal, familial, social, national and international events.
      Cognition involves sensing, interpreting, memorizing, questioning,
      pattern finding, analyzing, correlating, synthesizing, contemplating,
      understanding, appreciating and hypothesizing on the basis of this
      information input.
2] Affect
     Affect means the effect of the variety of stimuli which, may impinge
     on us. The affect is in a way, “sandwiched” between cognition or
     perception of stimuli and the conation or response.
     In general it involves the activity of various parts of nervous,
     endocrine and metabolic changes. The affect is usually experienced as
     a] confidence, enthusiasm, pleasure, happiness, love, attraction,
     patience, comfort etc. or b] sadness, jealousy, hatred, depression,
     inhibition, diffidence, loneliness, listlessness, impatience, discomfort
     etc.
      3] Conation or action i.e. response
      Conation is the response of an individual. This can speaking, writing,
      listening, watching, and other interactions usually referred to as
      behavior.
      In traditional parlance this was called fulfillment of four
      PURUSHARTHAs, viz. DHARMA, ARTHA, KAAMA and
      MOKSHA through practice of SWADHARMA.
      DHARMA refers to accuracy in perception, affect and conation. This
      leads to ARTHA i. e. acquisition of material gains, followed by
      KAAMA i. e. satisfaction of the mundane desires [DHARMA
      AVIRUDDHAH KAAMAH i. e. the desires which are not against the
      DHARMA i.e. principles of global welfare.]. KAAMA is followed by
      MOKASHA i. e. liberation from all sort of bonds.
In short it must be appreciated that for most of us holistic health refers to
ever increasing and appropriate satisfaction of physical, instinctual,
emotional, intellectual needs and fulfillment and happiness arising from it.

Healthy Aging

By the word ageing we generally think of an unpleasant process associated
with dysfunction and disability. We think of a phenomenon full of
dependence and helplessness. It seems to indicate only cumulative wear
and tear due to micro insults and time dependent programmed loss of
structure and function. It seems to imply physical, psychological,
intellectual and social incapacitation. It seems to involve choking of charm,
routing of romance, decay of dreams, annihilation of aspirations and end of
new beginnings. It seems to be an entity that signals us to wind up every
thing get ready to quit this world- the world that we are so much long to
live in.


So let us study what is underlying this process of ageing. But before we do
that we have to distinguish it from the handicap or dysfunction that results
from diseases and the changes resulting from diseases and the natural
process of ageing, i.e. one which would take place in the absence of
diseases.
One can appreciate that such distinction is quite difficult. Most of us suffer
from one ailments such as infections, malignancies, diabetes, IHDs, as well
as environmental onslaughts in the form of ultraviolet radiation, heat, cold,
pollution, food additives, allergic substances, physical and chemical
injuries etc..

But still the ageing that results in absence history of gross or major diseases
roughly represents the true ageing and is generally attributed to two basic
facts
1] Genetic programme :
Decides the range of the longevity of life for a specific species and
determines genetic programme by virtue of which there time dependent
loss in structure and function. Genes programme senescence and death.
Fibroblasts show 40 to 60 doublings. Ovary, testis, breasts, uterus, thymus
etc.
2] Accumulation of injuries or micro insults :

Since very little is understood in this respect there many theories based on
these two tenets to explain the ageing. Since they focus on a specific
change, they are inadequate. But together they do give us some insight into
the process of ageing.

2] THEORIES OF AGEING :

A] The Error Catastrophe Theory :
Random increase in errors of protein synthesis i.e. defects in transcription
and translation. But these seem to be post translational modifications.
Further, in senescent cells accumulation of misspelled proteins is not found
and Induction of synthesis of erroneous proteins experimentally does not
give rise to ageing.
B] Somatic mutation theory :
This suggests that there is age associated increase in chromosomal
aberration.
This is suggested to give rise progressive increase in inefficient cells
leading to organ dysfunction.
C] Free radical theory :
accumulation of metabolic waste products and radical mediated cell
damage e.g. hydroxy peroxide, aldehydes and ketones, superoxide radical,
singlet oxygen and hydrogen peroxide..
Lipid peroxidation at cellular level is not demonstrated in ageing.
And antioxidants are not as yet proved to be useful in delaying ageing.
D] Ionising radiations and such other environmental factors may cause cell
injury.
E] Cellular dysfunction in tissues such as CNS, endocrine and immune
system and influence other systems. Thus decrease in synthesis, increased
breakdown, decrease in receptor number, decrease in H-R combination,
decrease in HR internalisation etc.
F] Sedentary jobs, late night parties, noise, crowding, stress of highly
competitive life, uncertainty of socio-political surroundings, consistent and
protracted denial of the recognition and appreciation in life, habits such as
excessive smoking, lack of enjoyable job, lack of promotions and
incentives in jobs etc. can definitely contribute to hastening of the process
of ageing. These factors are somehow either not thought of or are not given
due importance and hence not mentioned the text books.

3] VARIOUS CHANGES TAKING PLACE DURING AGEING
PROCESS

Overall changes in the body are decrease in the height, increase in the
length of nose, increase in the length of ears, decrease in the circumference
of neck, decrease in the circumference of thighs, osteoporosis, bending of
the vertebral column causing kyphotic deformity, reduction in the
periorbital fat causing sinking of the eyes etc.
a] PHYSIOLOGICAL CHANGES
Broadly speaking, maximum capacity, tolerance, peak performance and
reserve are reduced.
I] Matrix :
Collagen becomes stable, more rigid, more insoluble and also reduction in
its content and increase in its degradation. In addition there are changes in
proteoglycans and plasma proteins. This is due to damage due cross
linking, less formation of collagen, reduction in the elastin. Fascia, tendons,
ligaments, bones, joints, and peripheral vascular disease become rigid. Skin
becomes dehydrated, devoid of subcutaneous fact and less elastic thus skin
becomes wrinkled, dry, pale due to reduction in capillary bed, more
susceptible to injury.
II] Blood :
Red bone marrow is replaced by yellow bone marrow in the long bones
first, flat bones and then vertebrae. Physiological reserve capacity for
erythropoiesis and leucopoiesis is reduced.
III] Gastrointestinal tract :
Teeth : Enamel, dentin and cement all show decline. Loss of teeth due to
caries, periodontal infection and reduced masticatory efficiency.
Weakness of cricopharyngeus, reduction in presure gradient and inability to
relax the lower esophageal sphincter cause dysphagia.
Stomach : Age related atrophy of mucosa causing achlorhydria. Pancreatic
lipase reduced causing streatorrhoea.
Motility of GIT is reduced : Hence there is tendency towards constipation.
In Ayurveda this is categorised under VAATA VRIDDHI.
Intestinal lactase activity is reduced and villi are reduced and absorption is
reduced.
Liver cells reduce in number fibrous tissue increases and size of liver cells
increases.
Protein synthesis and microsomal mixed oxidase activity required for
metabolism of drugs and steroids become less. Thus functions are reduced
but since the reserve is great the tests are in normal limit.
IV] The immune system:
shows decrease in the T cell activity, decrease in AB production and
presence of auto anti bodies due to reduced tolerance to antigens formerly
recognised as self. There is susceptibility to infections. Since
immunological -surveillance is believed to eliminate neoplastic cells there
is higher incidence of cancer. Following stress of bereavement there is
steep decline in cell mediated immunity and this causes death following
death of spouse or any other near / dear one.
V] Reproductive system :
The hormonal secretion reduces and there is stoppage of ova formation,
ovulation in females and there is gradual reduction in the spermatogenesis
causing reduction in the sperm count.
Females show a distinct and identifiable change in the form of menopause
where has such change is not distinct in males.
VI] Central nervous system and special senses :
Atrophy of the brain and neuronal loss. Accumulation of lipofuscin and
loss of synapses and dendrites. Cholinergic deficit is demonstrated in
Alzheimer's disease and Dopamine defect is demonstrated in Parkinson's
disease. Milder form of cholinergic deficit may be responsible for
commoner forms of senile dementia and milder form dopaminergic deficit
may be responsible for milder form of hypo-kinesia seen in old age.
There is deficit in autonomic responses leading to postural hypo-tension
and impairment of temperature regulation
Decrease in sleep : There is difficulty in getting sleep as well as there is
tendency to wake up during night and waking up early.
Presbyopia, cataract, rise in intraocular pressure. Presbyacusis i.e.
difficulty in hearing causes difficulty in understanding speech and
localisation of sound.
Sense of smell and taste also decline with age but are not studied
adequately perhaps because they do not cause serious functional deficits.
VII] Endocrine system : There is decrease in sympathoadrenal axis and
there is reduced tolerance to stress.
VIII] Cardiovascular system :
In those where there is no atherosclerosis, there still reduction in elasticity
of aorta. Increase in systolic and pulse pressure. But no change in diastolic
pressure.
Atherosclerosis, Atrophy of myocardium, Accumulation of lipofuscin,
Fibrosis, Deposits of amyloid, Contractility of heart is diminished,
contraction and relaxation time are increased, Decreae in ventricular
cmopliance, stenosis of aortic and incompetence of mitral valves, Number
of pacemaker cells is reduced and so, responses to sympathetic as well as
parasympathetic stimulation reduce and this causes postural hypotension.
Maximal HR during exercise is reduced in aged but cardiac output is
maintained by increasing stroke output.
IX] Respiratory System :
Microscopic changes :
The alveoli become flatter and narrower and ducts enlarge. Walls of the
alveoli become thin, capillaries decrease in number. Alveolar surface area
decreases by 4 % every decade after the age of 30. Pulmonary blood
vessels show age related increase in wall thickness.
Functionally there is decrease in total and timed vital capacity. Increase in
residual volume. Due to reduced elastin lung compliance increases but
compliance of the total respiratory system decreases due rigidity of chest
wall after the age of 60 years.
Due to loss of elastic recoil the pressure which has to be built during
expiration from the alveoli so that air from alveoli forces open the airways,
is decreased. Due to this there is tendency of the airways to collapse. This
tendency to collapse increases during expiration when expiration must
become active.
Due to decrease in capillaries there is reduction in diffusion.
The response to hypoxia and hypocapnia are reduced.
Thus ventilation, diffusion and regulation are all impaired in elderly
individuals.
X] Muscles :
Atrophy, reduction in contractility, decrease in tone, cataract, hernia and
rupture of inter-vertebral disc etc.
XI] Excretory system :
Kidneys reduce in size, renal plasma flow and GFR reduces 10 % per
decade after 30, nephrons and their secretory and absorptive functions
reduce and fibrous tissue increases. Kidney vessels show age related
changes irrespective of hypertension.
It has been hypothesised that due to high protein diet there may high solute
load on the renal capillaries leading to chronic dialation of the capillaries
leading to extravasation macromolecules in renal glomeruli leading to
mesangial reaction causing renal damage.

b] PSYCHOLOGICAL CHANGES :
Frustration, depression, fear, anxiety, insecurity, loneliness, vacuum,
dejection, self pity, sadness are some of the hallmarks of old age.
With ageing there is increasing restriction on the kind of enjoyments one is
accustomed to and this can lead to frustration or depression.
The increasing chances of death especially due death of the contemporaries
cause alarm, concern, anxiety and fear of death, diseases and debility.
Due to lack of job after retirement or physical inability there is always a
sense of insecurity.
Lack of the children's company due to their being increasingly independent
gives a feeling of loneliness. This can happen due to children going abroad
or away from home for their jobs.
Since most of the people of younger age groups have their own pre-
occupations the elderly are left out. More over the ideas, choice,
preferences and other areas of interests differ and hence the elderly are cut
off from younger generation. This distance gradually increases with
advancing age.
This leads to vacuum, dejection, self pity and sadness.
Thus overall the old people tend to become increasingly melancholic.

d] ECONOMIC CHANGES
The ageing almost always associated with reduced income and increasing
economic dependence on the others.
c] SPIRITUAL CHANGES :
In Idia we find that there is an increasing tendency to visit temples and
SATSANG. This is because they want a certain kind of solace which they
do not get from day to day life and routine activities. This is also to fill the
vacuum created due to retirement, and get company of those who sail in the
same boat.
This has given to a widely prevalent yet totally wrong notion that the
spiritual pursuit should be undertaken at old age.
But the courage, alertness, enthusiasm and other physical and mental
faculties which are extremely important to undertake spiritual pursuit [ i.e.
growth of consciousness ] considerably diminish in old age.

Old people become some what disinterested and indifferent towards life.
But this should not be taken as detached attitude described in Geeta. Old
people are generally detached because they accept that they cannot do
anything to either prevent things which they do not like, or to make things
happen which they like. Thus their detachment is out of giving up, or
acceptance of defeat.

Some elderly individuals develop ascetic thoughts due to losing interest in
the routine life because they are tired of responsibilities and dynamism
required for their job or profession. This may mean reduction in income.
But this has not do with financial sacrifice. It is only a fallout of
exhaustion.
It is not a spiritual virtue of selflessness.

Some individuals lose interest in the surroundings due to decreasing
sensory perception and decreased mobility. They become shy about their
deficiency. So they avoid socialisation. Gradually they become
increasingly self centred and selfish. They become over-concerned about
themselves and less sensitive to others' problems. They become more rigid,
adamant and at times obstinate. In an attempt to assert themselves they
become unreasonable and erratic.

But this impression which we get from the foregoing is quite inadequate
and therefore wrong. Further it is dangerously pessimistic and depressing.
The horror of ageing, as made out to be by merely observing certain
physical or psychological changes without realising that there is a vast
difference between the ageing of the animals and that of the human beings,
only creates fear about ageing. Thereby instead of helping the aged we
expedite the process of ageing and its ill effects not only in the elderly but
also in the younger minds by creating fear psychosis. We may call it
gerontophobia, or genrontoneurosis.

The meaning of the word ageing is not merely becoming old but also
developing and maturing. Hence ageing of wine raises its market value!

The depressing notion about ageing fails to notice the fact that while
ageing, a person accumulates not merely micro insults and injuries but
simultaneously accumulates a variety of experiences, associated with
increasingly appropriate and accurate interpretation of those experiences
and increasingly accurate responses to challenges in life.
Ageing is also associated with either greater and greater degree of
fulfilment, satisfaction, and contentment due to achievements in life,
success in the aims / ambitions / aspirations. In the lesser fortunate ones it
is associated with happiness of havng procreated and seen children and
grand children grow. It is associated with experience of their love. Even in
the least fortunate ones it incorporates the satisfaction that one has lived
[ has not died young ].

Further it has be realised that while ageing the aged individual gradually
learns the inevitable nature of ageing and death and hence gradually learns
to accept them uncomplainingly and gracefully.

Age is respected in Indian culture as against some cultures in other parts of
the world where the age and aged are treated as liabilities. Thus age brings
extra care and respect to the individual. He gets more services and comforts
in preference to the younger lot. Though this scenario is changing, it is still
not out of control.

     However, after having seen that ageing need not be dreaded at all it is
     NOT ONLY NOT impertinent and unnecessary to study the process
     of ageing BUT INFACT is VERY essential to study it in a holistic
     manner i.e. from every possible angle and as a part of our existence.
     Because this can help us overcome our fear of old age, it can help us
     age gracefully and it can also help us to help the aged people. This
     can help us in helping the aged to help themselves also. This can
     improve the quality of everyone's life aged as well as to be aged.


     CONCEPT OF GOOD MORNING
     According to some, the time from 2.30 a.m. to the sunrise and
     according to some, the period of two hours before the sunrise
     constitute BRAHMAMUHURTA. As the name suggests this time is
     the best time for conceiving, understanding, experiencing or merging
     with BRAHMA, the eternal truth, the eternal purity and the eternal
     bliss. This is the time of liberation from the shackles of every kind. It
     is not a matter of belief for those who have experienced the joy of
     getting up fresh from the bed at this time!
There is a Sanskrit shloka [verse], which depicts the sub-classification
of this enchanting period.
PANCHA, PANCHA USHAHKAALA
SAPTAPANCHAARUNODAYA
ASHTAPANCHA BHAVET PRAATAH SHESHA SURYODAYO
MATAH
It means:
55 GHATIKA after the sunrise of previous day the USHAH KAALA
the time of USHAA begins.
After 57 GHATIKA, the time of ARUNODAYA and after 58
GHATIKA the time of PRAATAH begins. The remaining time till
sunrise is called the time of SURYODAYA.
[The day is constituted of 60 GHATIKA. GHATIKA is
approximately equivalent to 24 minutes.]
It is with the grace of mother earth that this fortune is granted to us.
We walk on her body in a mindless manner through out the day. So
there is a tradition to be grateful to her before we start our day by
praying the mother earth. This wisdom helps us unite with the forces
of which we are extension and thereby empower ourselves and also
be humble and environment-friendly.
SAMUDRAVASANE DEVI PARVATASTANAMANDALE
VISHNUPATNIM NAMASTUBHYAM PADASPARSHAM
KSHAMASVA ME
Oh goddess earth, who is clad in the beautiful attire of oceans and the
mountains are whose bosoms and who is the wife of Lord Vishnu, I
offer my grateful salutations to you and ask for forgiveness as I put
my feet on you [touch you with my feet].
This prayer orients us appropriately in such way that it opens up our
hearts to the glorious bounties of earth and her love towards us. It
starts nourishing us as well as gives us the perspective of loving our
mother earth, which is so much essential for awakening our
responsibilities towards her.
Then we pray
KARAGRE VASATE LAXMI KARAMADHYE SARASVATI
KARAMULE TU GOVINDAM PRABHATE
KARADARSHANAM
The meaning is
At the tips of the hand there stays Laxmi the goddess of prosperity
At the middle stays the goddess of knowledge Sarasvati
At the root of the hands stays Lord Govinda i.e. Lord Vishnu
Hence [I] always watch my hands with reverence!
This is such a wonderful prayer! It helps us to reveal and establish the
connections between the deities, which are the sources of our power.
It helps us explore the potentials of prosperity, profundity and
fulfillment in our life and thereby helps us develop respect for
ourselves. Such respect as you know, is essential for taking due care
of our body while simultaneously directing it to do things in life
which would help us in gaining holistic health.
There is one more and simple prayer in SHUKLA YAJURVEDA. It
is as follows.
BAHU ME BALAMINDRIYAM HASTAU KARMA VEERYAM
AATMA KSHATRAMURO BHAVA
I pray that my arms and my all organs be strong and my soul and my
heart be the healers.
SHUKLA YAJURVEDA 20.7.

CONCEPT OF OBSERVENCE OF SILENCE [MAUNA]
It is interesting to see how speech reflects the mind of a person and in
turn how regulation of the process of speech has beneficial influence
on mind!
One of the shlokas says,
PAPENAIVA NRUNAANAM VAANEE BHAVET
KATUKABHASHINEEDAINYA MAATSARYA PARAMAA
SHUBHAASHUBHAVIVARJITA

Meaning
It is because of diseased mind with utmost lowliness and jealousy that
the speech becomes scalding with no concern whatsoever for about
the welfare or otherwise of the listener.
In Geeta it is said,
ANUDVEGAKARAM VAAKYAM SAYAM PRIYA HITAN CHA
YAT
  SVAADHYAAYAABHYASAN CHAIVA VANGMAYM TAPA
UCCHYATE
  GEETA 17.15
 Meaning
Speech which does not humiliate and thereby hurt [the listener], thus
which is true and pleasant and beneficial is really the product of
penance involving the entire neuro-physiological
and neuromuscular processes of speech and articulation respectively.
There is another shloka which advocates silence during certain
physiological acts. It is as follows.
UTSARGE MAITHUNE CHAIVA PRASTRAVE
DANTADHAAVNE SHRAADDHE BHOJANAKALE CHA
SHATSU MAUNAM SAMAACHARET

Meaning
During defecation, urination, removal of secretions of nose, skin, ear
and eyes [dirt], during bleeding, during sexual intercourse, cleaning
of teeth, during SHRAADDHA [ritual performed to commemorate
the death anniversary of an individual] and while eating food one
should observe silence i. e. speechlessness.
During defecation usually there is breath holding and contraction of
abdominal muscles. This is essential for building adequate pressure in
the abdomen so as to move the feces towards anus. Due to talking the
breath holding ceases and the abdominal muscles also relax. This
would create difficulty in smooth defecation. One can also consider
the distraction [due to talking], which can be disturbing to defecation.
Urination also involves increase in pressure in the abdomen and also
in the urinary bladder. Talking can alter these pressures and hence the
urinary flow can be disturbed.
When we are removing the secretions from nose [respiratory
secretions], skin, ears and eyes we should be careful to remove the
dirt carefully so as to avoid trauma to theses structures
In general, all the excretory processes, viz. defecation, urination,
respiratory secretions, sweating, secretions in the ear and eye involve
autonomic nervous activity linked with reticular formation in the
brain. Talking can alter respiration, activity of reticular formation,
and activity of mind, autonomic nervous activity, endocrine and
metabolic activity and also the excretory activity.
Sexual intercourse invariably involves autonomic activity and hence
it is strongly recommended that silence is observed during sexual
intercourse. It is important because the intensity of the emotional
integration and depth of ecstasy are apparently hindered due to
talking during sexual intercourse.
Bleeding can either be physiological bleeding as in case of menstrual
bleeding and it can also be due trauma [injury]. The process of
bleeding and arrest of bleeding are tremendously influenced by
cardiovascular activity, which in turn is influenced by autonomic
nervous activity. Hence talking that disturbs autonomic activity is
recommended to be avoided.
During cleaning of the teeth there is a prayerful attitude with respect
to the plants or herbs used in the process. So talking is avoided. But
from practical point of view, talking during cleaning of teeth and
gums can cause inadvertent biting of fingers or injury to the oral
cavity.
During SHRAADDHA silence is probably advised solely for
maintaining pious atmosphere, which is understandable.
During eating the silence advised to avoid vulgar and even mundane
thoughts being articulated [thereby hindering the sanctity of the
eating] on the one hand and to avoid accidental regurgitation of food
in the trachea on the other.
It can be seen how thoughtful were our ancestors with respect to
  understanding of life. It has to be appreciated these are relatively
  superficial aspects of keeping silence.
  Learning to keep silence in terms of avoiding talk is a very
  preliminary process of achieving real silence. It is the achievement of
  this silence, which is called KARMANI AKARMA in Geeta [4.18].
  This is full of peace and full of activity. It is very real and deepest
  personal experience and also the cosmic phenomenon that links one
  with the universe.
   MANAHPRASAADAH SAAUMYATVAM MAAUNAM
   AATMAVINIGRAH
BHAAVASAUNSHUDDHIRITYETAT TAPO
   MAANASAMUCCHYATE
GEETA 17.16
Inner harmony associated with vocal silence that emanates life-giving
   joy are indicators of pure existence and referred to as MANASAM
   TAPA.

  If we keep quiet for sometime, then we can easily observe the
  turbulence of thoughts, which keep on crowding our minds. This
  observation tells us that the thoughts are neither our creation nor are
  restricted to our body. They are the link, between, the cosmos and us
  and illustrate the continuity between an individual and the universe.
  Keeping silence has a humorous and practical implication also.
  AATMANO MUKHADOSHENA BADHYANTE SHUKA
  SAARIKA

  BAKASTATRA NA BDHYANTE MAUNAM SARVAARTHA
  SAADHANAM

  Meaning
  It is because inappropriate [ too long, too harsh, stupid, meaningless,
  too enticing] speech is a cause of slavery, imprisonment or other type
  of losses. Ability to remain silent is extremely beneficial. This is clear
  from the examples of SAARIKA and parrot who are caught and kept
in cage whereas crane is free! Hence while negotiating in business or
in politics or even playing cards, silence can play a pivotal role!

CONCEPT OF DRINKING WATER THE SAP OF LIFE

We must know that 66 % of the body weight is constituted by water.
Out of this about 66 % i. e. about 28 liters is in the cells called
intracellular fluid and about 34 % i. e. about 14 liters is outside the
cells called extracellular fluid. The water is so much important for the
body but what alas, its importance is hardly described in textbooks of
physiology or even preventive or curative medicine.
Right in the beginning it must be appreciated that water is essential
for the saliva to form and give amongst other things, us the ability to
taste. Formation of saliva would be tremendously compromised if
there is inadequate availability of water. It is common experience that
drying of mouth is associated with sensation of thirst as well as
speechlessness, besides developing bad odor to breath [halitosis], oral
infections and caries of teeth..
Water is also required for the formation of gastric, pancreatic,
intestinal and bile juices. Water is required amongst other things for
temperature regulation through formation of sweat.
It is by getting dissolved in water, that the nutrients can reach
different parts of body. It is the water that various chemical reactions
take place so as to generate energy and also to build different body
tissues, from the nutrients consumed. The water is also required for
dissolving and carrying away the waste material from the body cells.
Water is very much required for removal of waste products through
the rectum and urinary bladder.
The dry feces can be extremely painful and harmful and dry urine
[oligouria, anuria] can be fatal. This probably does not require further
elaboration as most of us have experienced the burning micturition
and dry feces during fever and/or due even mild deficiency of water
due to one reason or another. But in addition water is also required for
removal of toxic gases like CO2 by forming [ CO2 + H2O = H2CO3
= HCO3- + H+] NaHCO3. In fact, it is required for dissolving,
neutralizing and detoxifying several substances from all the body
cells as well as specialized cells like those of liver. It is worth noting
that some individuals develop allergy to some substances including
some drugs. In such situation, drinking large quantities of water is
found to be beneficial.
It is also important to note that many of those who get dehydration
and head ache can get relief by drinking lot of water. This is because
of lot of water is consumed for metabolism of alcohol leaving the
body dehydrated.
It is interesting to note that the gastrointestinal tract is nothing else
but the internalized skin! It is therefore natural that this tract has lot of
sensory receptors in as much as it has various glands and muscles.
Therefore apart from everything else, mentioned above, the first thing
that happens after we drink water is that we feel fresh! Secondly it
cleans various secretions of no consequence or those with injurious
effects. Thirdly it would also stimulate movements of the stomach,
intestine, small intestine etc. as a result of which there is facilitation
of movement of feces towards the anus. This helps in relieving
constipation. This is like internal bath.
Drinking of water can be beneficially used for many of those who
wish to control habits such as tea, coffee or tobacco, alcohol etc.
Since water has the paramount quenching effect it does allay the
anxiety and restlessness which is developed because of abstinence of
these substances and helps overcome these habits [though other
measures may also be required depending on the severity of an
individual case].
Some people viz. the advocates of “water therapy” advise as much
1.260 liters of water to be drunk at a time. They claim that a variety
of diseases, are actually prevented and cured by such water drinking
In view of all the above, the custom of drinking water in morning
called USHAHPANAM. [Actually this a general and nonspecific
term. Ushaa means the time before the sunrise and paanam means to
drink.] is very beneficial.
Water is life giving. Hence water itself is called life [JEEVANA]. It is
very interesting to note that n India there is a custom of offering
jaggery and water to the visitors. Water is served right in the
beginning even in restaurants.
THE CONCEPT OF BATH
The concept of bath is more profound than is usually considered to
be. The bath in neither a mechanical and meaningless religious ritual
nor it is a physical procedure that merely involves cleaning the body
and simply refreshing the mind.
It has to be appreciated that bath has direct influence on the activities
of all the cells of the body through its effects on central nervous
system, autonomic nervous system, endocrine system, immune
system and metabolic activities.
It is true that the details of the effects are not described in the text-
books of physiology as they have are not studied or even thought over
adequately. In addition, there is a tendency amongst researchers to
rely on experiments and not accept [or even consider] what appeals to
reasoning unless substantiated by experiments, even if it is obvious.
This is somewhat similar to increasing reliance of clinicians on
gadgets and investigations. This has prevented us from understanding
and appreciating the benefits of bath described in the following
shloka.
GUNA DASHAH SNANAPARASYA SADHO
ROOPAM CHA TEJAM CHA BALAM CHA SHAUCHAM
AYUSHYAM AROGYAM ALOLUPATVAM
DUHSWAPNA GHATAHSH CHA TAPAM CHA MEDHA
The meaning is
Oh gentleman! The bath is beneficial in ten different ways.
It improves physical state of existence. It is to be appreciated that
ROOPAM does not mean mere appearance. It includes all the
physiology. This is why ROOPAM and NAMA are some times
compared and contrasted. ROOPAM is everything that is identified
by all the terminology [NAMA] in the physiology.
It improves the TEJAM i.e. all the activities that generate energy. In
modern parlance this refers to formation of ATP [Adenosine
Triphosphate] and CP [Creatine Phosphate].
It improves BALAM. BALAM refers to the actual power, endurance
and working capacity of an individual [through efficient formation
ATP and CP].
It imparts SHAUCHAM i.e. purity. SHAUCHAM is not merely
physical cleanliness of the skin. Bath stimulates the circulation and
helps wash away all the waste products likely to be accumulated in
and around the cells present in nook and corner of the body.
It gives AYUSHYAM i.e. life. AYUSHYAM is defined as
PRAANALAKSHANA VAAYUNAA YOGAH, which means
availability and utilization of oxygenation by all the parts of the body.
This is achieved through stimulation of central and autonomic
nervous systems as well as through their stimulation, stimulation of
the respiratory system, cardiovascular system, which are vital in
reaching the oxygen to the body cells. But that is not all. It also
stimulates the endocrine, immune and metabolic activities.
It improves AROGYAM, which is defined as
DHAATUSAAMYAM, which means right proportion of everything
in body so as to give power, pleasure, profundity, peace and so on for
prolonged time!
It gives ALOLUPATVAM, which means capacity rise above
gravitating, enslaving, depressing, and frustrating forces in life. This
is important in every sphere of life. In fact ALOLUPATVAM refers
to the state of mind which is invincible.
DUSVAPNAGHAATASH means one, which destroys bad dreams or
nightmares. Bath can achieve this through achieving a state of
alertness by overcoming the unsteady, imbalanced state of mind,
which causes bad dreams and nightmares.
TAPAH is of three types [Geeta 17.14, 17.15, 17.16] involving
roughly speaking body, intellect and emotions. The TAPAH is also
further classified [Geeta 17.17, 17.18, 17.19] into divine, mundane,
and devilish. TAPAH means coordinated and controlled activity at an
individual level, in the best interest of the universe, which is made
easier through bath. Bath taken thrice a day [TRIKAL SNAANA] in
itself, is a difficult accomplishment and involves all three types of
TAPAH!
MEDHAA means enlightened intelligence. The bath involves not
only physical cleanliness but it shifts the level of consciousness. This
is particularly important because with such shift in consciousness, the
perceptions, desires, aims and actions become increasingly more
accurate.
Prayer of Ganga
NAMAAMI GANGE TAVA PAADPANKAJAM
SURAASURAIRVANDITADIVYARUPAM
BHUKTIN CHA MUKTIN CHA DADAASI NITYAM
BHAAAVAANUSAARENA SADAA NARAANAAM
This prayer when recited before actual SNAANA, helps in more than
one way. It links us with the river Ganga [who has been worshipped
by our ancestors], thereby it links us with the land and our culture and
it links us with our history and our forefathers.This very prayer has
thus tremendous potential to help us get rid of isolated, alienated,
lonely existence.
The diabetics may try bathing thrice a day and verify the beneficial
effect of bath.

Like bath cleaning of mouth after getting up in morning is also
probably universal in nature. In India it is called MUKHA
MAARJANAM [MUKHA means mouth and MAARJANAM means
cleaning. Another term used is DANTADHAVANA. DANTA means
teeth and DHAVANA means to purify. It is usual to clean nose, eyes,
ears and whole face along with mouth and teeth.

In modern dentistry it is advised that the teeth be brushed at bedtime.
This is in view of preventing accumulation of food particles trapped
in dental crevices. There is nothing wrong about it. But some of us
tend to think that brushing teeth in morning is not necessary, since
nothing is trapped in the teeth as nothing is eaten during sleep!

This is due to the misconception that this is merely a cleansing
[shaucha] procedure. Actually the use of the tooth powder as is
traditional in India involves rubbing tongue, gums and palate and is
useful in terms of causing stimulation of salivation and circulation in
the areas surrounding the mouth [especially] in and around the
maxillary and ethmoid sinuses. In addition this procedure stimulates
the pertinent areas of brain and hence refreshes the mind.

Alternatively a stick of about nine inches of a banyan or a neem tree,
by biting it at one side is used.
The following prayer is recited before or while cleaning the oral
cavity, gums, tongue and the teeth.
AYURBALAM YASHO VARCHAS PRAJA PASHUNVASUNI
CHA
BRAHMA PRADNYAN CHA MEDHA CHA TVAM NO DEHI
VANASPATE

MASSAGE
Massage is MARDANAM.
SNEHASCHA DHATUN SANSHUSHKAN PUSHNATYASHU
PRAYOJITAH

BALAMAGNIBALAM PUSHTIM
PRANASCHASYABHIVARDHAYET
The dry DHATUS [weakened body matter] becomes stronger if oiled
and massaged. Even the AGNIBALAM [i.e. fire principle in body i.e.
the metabolic activity] is rejuvenated and the PRNAS [i.e. peripheral,
autonomic and central nervous and neuromuscular activity] is also
strengthened.
VYAYAMASVINNAGATRASYA
PADBHYAMUDVARTITASYA CHA

VYADHAYO NOPASARPANTI SIMHAM KSHUDRAMRUGA
IVA
One whose body has perspired because of exercise and massaged by
feet becomes so strong that just as timid deer do not come even
nearby a lion, similarly the diseases do not come even in the vicinity
of him/her.
BHARATIYA SANSKIRI KOSHA VOL.7, pages 90-91.
There are different types of massage which improve circulation in
almost every nook and corner of your body. In the evenings the head
massage is especially useful. You can do it yourself. You can use
Brahmi oil and get the additional advantage. Massage eyes, face etc.
Once in week whole body massage can do wonders to your health.
You can use Narayan oil for additional benefit. It is useful to
massage the feet twice or thrice a week. The best time to massage the
feet in the evenings. Feet take all the burden of the body. But they are
not enough attention. Callosities, corns, scaling, fungal infections,
bruises are common on feet. This is especially so in case of those who
do a job where standing for long time or walking is required. Ill
fitting shoes, allergies to synthetic shoes are also common problems.
They keep an individual nagging and disturb one’s peace of mind.
Regular massaging ensures flexibility of the small joints and
adequate circulation and micro-circulation in the feet. This is
especially useful in diabetics who are more to develop vasculopathy
and resultant damage in the feet, in the form of necrosis and
gangrene. Massage when given with love and care c be far more
soothing and healing than when given by a professional [who may be
indifferent

WHAT IS IMPORTANCE OF MASSAGE?
Massage is very useful. I have discussed it here because it has an
inseparable element of emotional soothing.
There are different types of massage. All of them help you to improve
circulation in almost every nook and corner of your body.
In the evenings the head massage is especially useful. You can do it
yourself. You can use Brahmi oil and get the additional advantage.
Massage eyes, face etc.
As far as body massage is concerned, it may not be feasible to take it
every day. But at least once in week whole body massage can do
wonders to your health. You can use Narayan oil for additional
benefit.
IS IT USEFUL TO HAVE FOOT MASSAGE?
Yes. It is useful to massage the feet twice or thrice a week. The best
time to massage the feet in the evenings. Feet take all the burden of
the body. But they are not enough attention. Callosities, corns,
scaling, fungal infections, bruises are common on feet. This is
especially so in case of those who do a job where standing for long
time or walking is required. Ill fitting shoes, allergies to synthetic
shoes are also common problems. They keep an individual nagging
and disturb one’s peace of mind.
Regular massaging ensures flexibility of the small joints and adequate
circulation and micro-circulation in the feet. This is especially useful
in diabetics who are more to develop vasculopathy and resultant
damage in the feet, in the form of necrosis and gangrene.
.
Massage when given with love and care can be far more soothing and
healing than when given by a professional [who may be indifferent].

THE CONEPT OF WALKING
According to Mahatma Gandhi walking is the best exercise.
Locomotion is a characteristic of most species. But in human beings
this characteristic has almost disappeared and is replaced by
mechanization, mechanized motion, automation and automated
motion! Most of the time we are sitting in chairs and our legs are idle,
neither supporting nor balancing our body. They either hang from the
chairs passively or are resting on the footrest under the table.
This sedentary life style has led to either development or aggravation
of several ailments. It is not necessary to go into the details of these
ailments. But some of them such ischaemic heart diseases, diabetes
mellitus, varicose veins, hernia, low body resistance are obvious.
Walking is being one with one’s biological specie identity. Just as
locomotion is natural as well as essential for the survival in case of
most animals and birds, it is natural and though not essential for
survival, in view of availability of sex, food, protection etc. without
locomotion, essential for the health.
Walking involves synchronous activation and inhibition of general
sensory and general motor neurons in the nervous system and thereby
also a variety of muscle groups. This has two major effects. The
prefrontal cortex and limbic system involved in activity of intellect
and emotions and characterized by reverberating circuits associated
with confusion, dilemmas, diffidence, inertia, indecision, anxiety etc
are kept in abeyance.
Hence walking alleviates the anxiety. Walking is solacing because of
its synchronizing influence on the brain and mind. In addition it has
the same beneficial effect of exercise, of producing endorphins and
cooling the mind.
Walking is associated with contraction of the lower extremities,
which help in returning of the blood from the lower parts to the heart.
This prevents development of varicose veins and reduces load on the
heart. Since pumping activity of the heart is reduced the possibility of
heart failure is reduced.
As a byproduct of improved venous return, the lungs are perfused
better and ventilation is not wasted or in other words, oxygenation is
improved.
Walking is associated with, associated movement of arms and neck
and hence the possibility of degenerative changes in these regions
causing spondylosis and frozen shoulder are reduced.
Gradual and supported walking helps the patients of parkinsonism,
paraplegia, hemiplegia etc gain confidence [which is vital for early
recovery].
Even the senior citizens are benefited in terms of being able to assert
their physical stamina.
Walking is useful as form meditation called GAMANA [walking]
VIPASYANA [meditation]. Those who like to recite the name of God
[NAMSMARAN] or those like to recite prayers can do so while
walking.
By practice, is possible synchronizing NAMSMARAN, with
footsteps, which are synchronous inhalation and exhalation and the
relaxation and contraction of abdominal muscles.
Walking reduces the stress produced because of immobility. This is
especially true in cities where we have to spend in our life in
“matchbox prisons”. The stress caused by such immobility is proved
to cause a variety of damaging i. e. injurious effects on the body.
Walking gives us opportunity to breathe at least some fresh air which
so rare in cities like Mumbai, Calcutta, Delhi etc.
While walking we get breeze which is important from the VIHAR
point of view in ayurveda and giving the body air element from the
point of view of naturopathy. In fact, walking provides, TEJA [sun],
VAYU [air] and AKASH [space] and thus fulfilling naturopathic
requirements excepting mud and water.
It is true from allopathic point of view that air, sun and space [by
providing contrast] stimulate millions of receptors on the skin and
also inside the body [as circulation increases] and cause overall
rejuvenation of the nervous system and thereby other systems
including circulatory and respiratory systems.
Like any other exercise is associated with increase in circulation,
respiration, sweating and excretion of toxins and thus it helps the
kidney by reducing load over it.
Walking is important for healthy sweating. Sweat is antiseptic and
protects the skin from bacteria. In addition sweat actually washes
away the obnoxious collections on the skin also. Sweating is
important in thermo-regulation.
Because of increased blood supply to skin healing/prevention of
chronic skin ulcers and increased blood supply to mucus membranes
and stimulation of the production of mucus cleaning the lungs and
prevention/healing of ulcers in the stomach can also be helped.
Besides, skin converts the bilirubin into lumirubin, which is excreted
in sweat. This is important additional/alternative way of excretion of
bilirubin.
Reduces blood sugar, cholesterol, triglycerides etc, as like exercise, it
also stimulates metabolic [anabolic activity].
Walking in morning gives exposure to sun and this is good for natural
supplement of vitamin D from the UV rays in the sunlight.
Regular walking gives us rest and freedom from many compulsions,
which we impose on ourselves.
Walking almost certainly ensures sound sleep, which is one of the
important aspects of health.
If we are walking alone and recite either some MANTRA or the name
of God, then as we are not talking mundane matters we can gain most
virtuous fruit of Maunam i.e. observance of silence. This is called
MANAS TAPA in Geeta [17.16.]. This also helps in avoiding
backbiting, abusing etc. and thereby help in purifying one’s speech.
This is called VAACHAA SHUDDHI. Actually this helps in
purifying the thoughts also.
From social point of view, deep and selfless bonds of love are
developed amongst walkers.
Walking alone [without company] gives confidence and fearlessness
by helping overcome the fears developed as result of paranoia found
in many of us developed as a result of some physical or psychological
trauma.
Not merely the medical problems are reduced and the safety is
  increased, but medical bills are also reduced. In addition obesity
  related food, [overeating], clothes [excess size] and perfumes are also
  reduced. This economic aspect of walking is also interesting.



  CONCEPT OF COMPOSED MIND
  BODY POSTURES
  Body posture is defined as the position of the body specific to the
  specie.
  Wrong posture can affect your emotions adversely and conversely
  emotional disturbances affect the posture adversely. In fact emotions
  are most of the times reflected through body posture. In this why
  body posture constitute body language. Good actors use the body
  language to enact their role.
  In routine life erect posture is preferred whenever possible. It is
  important to sit with back and loin touching the back of the seat. This
  reduces undue strain on back and reduces the chances of backache.
  Erect and steady body [trunk], neck, head and eyes focussed on the
  tip of nose are conducive mental peace and rejuvenation.
  PADMASANA and VAJRASANA are famous postures in YOGA.

  MEDITATION
  There are several techniques of meditation. One may practice any
  method that suits him or her. But it is important to remember that all
  the techniques are [should be ] meant for overcoming ego,
  broadening the mind and developing global perspective. In other
  words they are aimed exploring the link between the individual and
  universe.
Some common techniques of meditation include, transcendental
  meditation, Shavasana, dancing mediation, laughing meditation,
  walking meditation, reciting prayers called stotrapathana, singing the
  praise of God called Bhajana, narrating the life of prophets and saints
  in musical and entertaining form called Kirtana, idol worship etc. But
  use of alertness and rational thinking are very important as in absence
of these they can shroud one’s mind and take it away from the day to
day realities in life.
AUTOSUGGESTIONS
The mind is usually full of opposing ideas, opposing thoughts,
opposing feelings and hence the dilemmas such as the famous “To be
or not be?” develop. Dilemmas lead to diffidence, indecision and
inefficiency.
Autosuggestions are usually meant for helping an individual develop
positive frame of mind and overcome the negative thoughts, develop
confidence, decisiveness and efficiency.
However, by making thoughtless autosuggestions one may get
trapped in one’s own petty ideas of success and failures.
But some autosuggestions are based on profound philosophical
insight. They are of value.
A] I shall not get angry or feel sad today because it is about, past
which has gone by.
B] I shall not worry or get restless because it is about future, which
may not come.
C] I shall thank the nature or God for the bounties, because they are
many times concealed and not apparent.
D] I shall respect everyone, because global unity is an objective
reality.
E] I shall do my duty honestly because honesty means exploring the
socially beneficial element in my work and that would prevent
dragging of mind from getting distracted towards and infatuated by
fallacious and illusive glamour present elsewhere.
BREATHING
CHALE VAATE CHALE CHITTAM NISCHALAM NISCHALO
BHAVET
If your breathing is uncontrolled and erratic then your mind also
remains disturbed. Conversely if your breathing is controlled and
steady then your mind also becomes steady and stable.
Deep, slow and controlled breathing is very useful. It seems to act
through the harmonization of reticular activating system. This makes
you calm and fresh and reduces mental agitation and disturbability.
However, Pranayama usually involves retention of breath. Timing of
inspiration, expiration, retention and that of holding the breath after
expiration, are important. The proportion of the timings is also
     important. The force and the frequency of respiration have also to be
     appropriate. The status of the body systems in general but particularly
     the status of the respiratory and cardiovascular systems has to be
     judged properly before one starts pranayama. Besides all these there
     has to be a Guru who is expert and can guide the student efficiently
     and safely.
     One of the authorities on pranayama Swami Rama calls pranayama as
     the PATH OF FIRE AND LIGHT.
     Therefore for common individuals like us it is safer and wiser to use
     simple breathing exercises rather than going for difficult techniques
     of pranayama.

     NAMASMARAN
     This traditional practice of remembering God’s name is universal,
     simple. It is supposed to act as an anchor for thoughts and prevents
     abnormal wandering of thoughts and flights of imaginations. This
     does not require any training.

CONCEPTS RELATED TO INDIVIDUAL LIFE

Concept of physical pain

My first and unforgettable encounter with pain was when I was in eighth
standard. It was when I had to get my molars filled. Every time the dental
surgeon used to inject my gums for giving local anesthesia it used to be a
real hell for me. The actual process of filling as a whole also was terrifying!

One of the interesting things about painful and pleasant experiences is that
anything associated with them is remembered better.

I still remember how I used to go in a crowded S.T. bus from Savantwadi
to Vengurla for this. I remember my dental surgeon Dr. Albert from Saint
Luke’s hospital very well. He was a tall, dark and impressive person. I can
not forget how warm and affectionate he used be. His waiting room was
beautiful. I can visualize it now also. There used to be some American
magazines on the tea poi and the walls were adorned with paintings of
flowers, Jesus and Merry.

There were many such encounters with pain, which I remember vividly.
But the most important thing is that they never could shake me! Why me
alone, most of us do not get shaken by pain. This is because pain is usually
not a permanent thing and never appears so. The experience of pain per se
therefore does not pose a major problem in terms of bearing or controlling
it with analgesic drugs popularly called painkillers.

But such experiences do not teach much about pain either.

Therefore I am going to tell you the experience of pain, which definitely
posed a problem and taught me quite a bit, about handling of pain.

It is very recently that I had this opportunity to learn about pain more
authentically.

I had gone to another dental surgeon. [I must be thankful to my dental
surgeons for all they have done for me, but most importantly for what I
have learned from the dental treatment]. This dental surgeon again a very
thorough gentleman and well behaved, kind person, filled my tooth. But as
the luck would have it, he realized that there was something wrong and had
to remove the filling. In the best interest of my teeth and me, he started
hammering to dig out that filling which had hardened. That hammering
continued for such a long [or at least it appeared so], that I started
palpitating and perspiring. I became almost breathless. There was not even
a moment of relief! All my senses came to standstill. [I do not deny the
possibility of having a very low pain threshold, but the symptoms are true!
No exaggeration!].

In that utter agony I ultimately felt totally defeated in every possible way. I
felt all the philosophy that I read, wrote and practiced was totally bogus,
fake and useless. I felt that I was totally wrong in practicing as well
upholding the NAMASMARAN as the panacea for individual and social
problems! I thought that the physical pain, disease, suffering and even the
cure proved the supremacy of matter over, the so-called spirit. I sank into
shame and pity about my body, my suffering, my reading, my concepts, my
practice of years, my writing and my entire self.

But the next moment I realized that I was not actually remembering the
name of God at that moment! I was trying to fight the pain by refusing to
accept it, which was actually in accordance with the law of physical
existence! The next moment I thought that let me test the power of
NAMASMARAN. Let me practice the NAMSMARAN right now.

I still do not know how that thought came in my mind. But I immediately
accepted the pain and started remembering the name of God in my mind.
Believe it or not, all the apprehension and fear of that pain disappeared.

It seemed as if when I started remembering the name of God, I lifted
myself from the plane of physical existence and allowed the things to
happen in their natural way and pass through their natural course, rather
than trying to resist them or reject them. The process of pain had its way to
pass through my body. It passed and in fact passed away much more
smoothly!

If you understand pain it can be easier to bear it.
Pain is protective in general. It alarms you about a disease and helps you to
get treated. So it is like a watchman or loyal dog, who protects you from
trespassers, thieves, etc. So do not hate pain. Do not try to resist it. Learn
to accept it. (I know this easier said than done, but try it. At least it can
reduce your pain in some instances).
Second reason why pain becomes worse is because of the lowliness
associated with it. Pain makes you feel lowly. This multiplies the
unpleasantness of pain. Do not feel lowly. Everybody gets pain at one time
or another.
Long lasting pain can create fear of a serious disease such as cancer and
this fear itself can be extremely painful!
Usually the pain is temporary and hence every time you get pain remind
yourself that it is temporary.
So if we get rid of the resistance, feeling of lowliness and fear it can at least
reduce the unpleasantness of pain.
It also useful to remind yourself that pain in most instances is temporary.
The next thing that may work is try to figure out the processing of pain
  sensation in your brain.
  Try to remember the name of God you worship. This can further reduce the
  fear and the apprehension the unpleasantness associated with pain.
  Yet another thing that makes pain unpleasant is the fact that pain usually
  distracts you from your job. This is especially true if it is an intellectual
  job. In such situation you start feeling suffocated, as you are not able to
  work. T overcome this feeling of suffocation, let yourself get the freedom
  to relax and stop thinking about the work.

  However, in spite of everything written above about pain, pain may be very
  difficult to manage in many circumstances. In such cases it is wise to take
  recourse to powerful analgesic [pain-killer] and axiolytic [anti-anxiety]
  drugs or other measures under the guidance and instruction of a competent
  family doctor or consultant. In India also there are pain clinics where the
  intractable pain is efficiently relieved.

How to overcome the shame of being non-normal?

Most of us think in a particular manner and hence fit in the range of
normality. They fit in the range of conventional acceptability. But some of us
think differently. Others sometimes ridicule them and that leads to
development of some kind of shame or feeling of inferiority. This is
especially so till they achieve social status.
In my view these individuals can be asset to the society and hence, a]
ridiculing them must be stopped and b] they should realize that they are
swans and not ugly ducklings.

Here is a reason for this. Consider this question. “Can we refer the light as
white or bright darkness and darkness as black or dark light?” It appears
foolish. Isn’t it? It may appear strange or merely semantic and even absurd to
many others.

Most of us would say, “When ever and where ever there are light rays we call
it light and when ever and where ever there are no light rays, we call it
darkness. So there is no question of referring light as darkness and referring
darkness, as light!”
Actually the question is not absurd. The answer is as follows. What we call as
darkness, in fact constitutes the electromagnetic radiations, which we do not
and can not see with naked eyes. The darkness therefore does not imply
absence of light. In fact these radiations are “light” which appears dark or
black to us, as we can not see them. So the so called, darkness is not at all
absence of light but actually constitutes the vast majority of radiations. In fact
the number of radiations present in so called darkness which we do not see
are several times in number as compared to those, which we see. So it is quite
appropriate to refer the darkness, as dark or black light!

Also what we refer to as light is actually constituted of radiations which have
wavelengths between about 400 to 700 nanometers only. This is a very small
fragment of the entire electromagnetic spectrum! But, this, so called light
gives us the impression, or in fact imparts the illusion, that we see everything
and know everything! There is nothing beyond what we see or what we
know, think, contemplate, project, imagine and interpret based on what we
see! Considering the fact that this is nothing else, but ignorance, it is
appropriate to call this as white or bright darkness.

Humility and boldness are one side of a coin and shyness and arrogance are
the other side of the coin. Reality is infinite and eternal. Discovering link
with it gives us happiness and boldness and recognizing limitations of
ourselves as individuals gives us humility. Inability to recognize our
limitations makes us arrogant and inability to link ourselves with the eternity
makes us timid and shy!

Master and servant, leaders and followers, guru and disciple, teacher and
student, doctor and patient and in fact all of us must consider this example
and develop mutual respect, boldness and humility if we aim to achieve
welfare of ourselves and that of the mankind.

  How to overcome the fear and shame of disease?
  It is true that some diseases such as venereal diseases bring trouble as well
  as shame. The recent addition to venereal diseases is AIDS. But there are
  many diseases, which create fear of physical [and financial] trouble as well
  as well as public humiliation. For example if we develop ischaemic disease,
we would be blamed for a particular life style. If we get diabetes, we would
be blamed for our diet. If we get liver cirrhosis and if we happen to be
drinking even moderate quantity alcohol, we would be blamed for alcohol.
Actually in ischaemic diseases stress plays a very important role. Hence the
ischaemic disease is found in many individuals who do not indulge in any
of the implicated risk factors.
Diabetes mellitus is a multifactorial disease. It means there are many
causes such as stress, family history, sedentary nature of job, viral infection
[which is not given adequate attention and importance] and so on.
50 to 60 % cases of liver cirrhosis present with the past history of serum
hepatitis caused by hepatitis B virus. But the people and the victims too
assume that all cases of cirrhosis are because of alcohol They mindlessly
begin to ridicule a cirrhotic patient, his family and everybody concerned
with the alcohol [irrespective of the amount that was consumed by that
person].
Ironically the patient also develops guilt complex and adds to his/her
misery.
The interesting thing is that attack of serum hepatitis may go unnoticed and
after several years the person may suffer from liver cirrhosis.
[One should never conclude from this that drinking is harmless. Whether
taken in moderate quantity or excess, every individual may respond
differently and hence if at all may drink at his or her own risk. Here the
point is that of overcoming the fear of disease.]
We have to appreciate that many times we indulge in things, which are
neither approved by society we live in, nor by us. This creates a sense of
guilt in our mind. This is further intensified by the medical literature, which
keeps on bombarding us with a variety of risk factors and make us neurotic
about a variety of diseases. We come to a point when we start losing all the
charm, romance and happiness in life.
We should understand that the bodily health, material possessions and
family pleasures are not constant. If we get diseased today, tomorrow we
may be healthy. If we are healthy today, we may be handicapped
tomorrow. The fatal diseases foretell the death and suffering but their
absence does not exclude the possibility of both suffering as well as death.
Fear of disease is based on our ignorance about these facts.
The fear can be overcome if we try to develop communion with our true
selves, accept the verdict of cosmic wisdom and try to do what we can in
our humble way with humility and submit our deeds to the cosmic
consciousness referred to as God. One of the ways of learning to do this is
by learning to chant the name of God along with slow and deep inspiration
and expiration. Through that we become aware of our innate and hence true
aspirations and this awareness helps us in defining and implementing our
priorities preferentially. This in turn makes us more and more free and
satisfied. The fear of disease, which is usually because of having unfulfilled
wants and desires, becomes lesser due to this fulfillment.



How to reduce the unpleasantness of death?

To get a reasonable and satisfactory answer for this question we need to
understand why first of all death is unpleasant. This is because even as the
concept of death is condered on pages 37-64 it is still necessary to consider
our psychological response to death so that its unpleasantness can be
reduced.

A] Death of a near and dear one is one of the most unpleasant phenomena
because of several reasons, many of which are too obvious to be discussed
here but some of them are as follows.

The death of a near and dear one is associated with a feeling of shame, loss,
misery, missing, being left out and so on. The shame is because of what is
interpreted as misfortune. The loss is because having longevity of life is
considered to be gain or plus point. The feeling of misery is because of the
social interaction of sympathy or pity. The feeling of missing and feeling of
being left out are because of the breech in the happy association to which
one is habituated.

Death can be even more stressful if it is untimely, accidental, sudden,
homicidal, suicidal or criminal.
This becomes additionally painful because it is challenges the very
foundation of one’s mind. It defies the unconscious presumption and logic
that death is associated with old age. It inflicts severely state of
complacency or unguardedness. It makes us vulnerable to psychological
shock.

In the present circumstances the medical treatment has become extremely
expensive and death of a near and dear one can take place merely because
of financial constraints. This would be associated with sense of guilt and
add additional painful dimensions to the sad event.

Death of a spouse or son/daughter is considered to be far more stressful
than that of the others. This is because it is associated with several other
factors which cause crippling of the daily existence. Death of spouse can
mean besides intense emotional bereavement, crippling economic loss. It
can mean tremendous deficiency in bringing up of the children, looking
after household affairs to many other problems. These things create besides
extreme unpleasantness fear and apprehension about death of the near dear
ones. This leads to constant anxiety and worry about our close ones’
security.

B] Our own death is also probably the most dreaded and unpleasant
phenomenon for every one of us:
In Marathi there is a poem which states:
MRUTYUNE JANA BAHATAT PARI TE BHOGASA VAITAGUNI
MRUTYO YEU NAKO ASE VINAVITI SARE PARANTU MANI
This means, many of us, may say that they want to die but it is only
because of the frustrations and troubles in life [and also because of the lack
of appreciation of the gravity of death]. But when it actually comes to die
they realize how ghastly it is and request the death not to come to them.

This is probably because we witness that death is usually associated with
misery, helplessness and pain for the dying person. We see a characteristic
desire to live in the eyes of a dying person. We witness the desperate and
frantic efforts to live and the despair and defeat in the face of impending
death. We notice the feeling of utter shame and indignation. There is
pining, begging and urging to the doctors or God, or a friend for some more
breaths.
This picture is agonizing and creates permanent aversion and fear about our
own death.
In addition, we notice the plight of the family members of the deceased. It
produces fear in our mind that if we die there could be similar plight of our
dependents. We fear that our death could cause sense of loss, sense of
insecurity, sense of self pity, feeling of guilt, feeling of shame [for being
the target of mercy, pity and sympathy and so on] to our near and dear ones
and let them down. We start despising the very thought of death.
There is one poem describing this:
ROJ SAKALI RAVIKIRANANSAH YUDDHAKAHANYA GHUSATI
NETRI
ANI BHAYACHA PADADA GHEUNA ZHURATO AMHI DIVASA
RATRI

The poet describes that when he gets up in morning and opens a
newspaper, the news of war pierce his eyes! They assault him! He finds
this so much shocking that he begins to live miserably day and night
constantly in the veil of fear!

The unpleasantness and/or fear of the death of near and dear ones can be
overcome to a great extent by internalizing the concept of SANKALPA and
KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA.

The deeds in this and previous lives of that person [KARMAPHALA OR
PRAKTANA] and the desire of the person or his/her plans for the next life
[SANKALPA] which neither he/she nor any one us know, decide the
course of events. We however are usually unaware of our ignorance and
hence arrogant. This ignorance coupled with arrogance makes us over
reactive to death. It almost makes us hysterical. It can explode us from
within and destroy the very foundation of charm and hope in life. By virtue
of this ignorance the extent of unpleasantness increases tremendously. Our
ignorance and arrogance cause confusion about the logic and justification
of the course of events. We fail to understand or grasp the events and
interpret them meaningfully and that makes us feel even worst.

If we train ourselves in the concept of KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA
AND SANKALPA then we would be able rise above our personal feelings
and then think of the whole series of events from the point of view of the
life of that person who is dying.
Even death of one’s son or daughter can become less painful if the parents
are given to understand this point of view of
KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA and SANKALPA. If the parents are
trained in these concepts and trained to look at the event in their light then
feeling of loss, humiliation, misery etc can be significantly reduced.

Every one of us is bound to leave our body some time or other. If we grasp
above concepts then we would be able to face diseases, handicap or death
in a more dignified manner in view of the KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA
and SANKALPA of ours. This helps us to recognize our ignorance and
thereby enables us to overcome apparent discrepancy between our
expectations and the actual reality. It gives us the insight into the possible
link of causality not known to us.

How to overcome loneliness?

We feel lonely because we are habituated to physically meet and interact
with family members, colleagues, friends, etc. We are habituated to meet
and interact with even the characters in TV serials, dramas, movies, whom
we do not actually meet! We also are habituated to dream and interact with
those whom we neither see on TV, stage or on screen!

Alternatively the “stars” in different field get addicted to public applaud
either directly or through mail and hence feel lonely when this vanishes.

If we are old, then we feel even lonelier. This is because we habituated to
authority. We are habituated to act as respected decision-makers. We are
used to caring for, looking after and supporting our children. We are used
to believe that all along we have been shaping them and their future! Once
our children are independent and away, everything starts dwindling. Our
children are no more dependent on us for physical, emotional, intellectual,
economic, or for that matter, any kind of support. They do not need our
guidance, help, love, warmth and care etc. But far more important is the
fact that our children create independent and separate “shells” full of new
relationships and new interactions! We are not allowed in the intimate
emotional, decisive intellectual transactions going on in these “shells” i.e.
families of our daughters or sons. We are rendered secondary and tertiary
and relegated to outer or peripheral region. In fact this is like having been
forced to severe all links with the insiders and stay outside the boundary of
a village! We are forced to live outside the “mind home” of our children
and relatives! We in fact feel the loneliness more intensely because we are
no more required except for sundry household work!

Loneliness is on the rise everywhere, in all societies, in all strata of society
and in all age groups! Therefore it is worthwhile trying to find out some
way of overcoming this shattering loneliness, which has acquired such a
menacing form and which is one of the major causes of wide spread
incidences of unrest, sadness, depression and even suicides!

Can the advanced communication system help in this? Can the
extraordinary growth in traditional media such as news papers, weeklies,
monthlies etc and more modern media like radio, telephones, pagers,
cellular telephones, TV, Internet, cyber cafes help in solving the problem of
loneliness? Can the rapidly proliferating meeting places, such conference
rooms, restaurants, hotels and clubs etc. help?

If loneliness had been because of mere physical separation then they could
have proved useful in solving the problem. But unfortunately loneliness is
not because of mere physical separation. It is because of individualism,
which has fractured the individuals from within and torn them apart from
one-another! Remember that I am not talking about that individualism
which inspires a person to live a life of an ascetic in search of that unifying
reality and in turn lead a truly universal life. I am talking about that
individualism which misguides and prompts the family members to break
apart in pursuance of physical and/or material pleasures. Such
individualism nurtures the pettiness and superficiality within us and
ultimately cuts us apart from our near and dear ones and makes us lonely!

The gadgets can never help when they are promoting individualism, which
harnesses pettiness and superficiality. In fact because of this, the revolution
in the information technology and communication system has not helped
and can not help in “wielding” the process of fracturing within an
individual and of incessant process of fission of hitherto relatively
homogenous, harmonious and orchestrated minds. In fact it is nurturing the
excessive engrossment in material pursuits worsening the problem of
loneliness.

The gadgets can not create love, warmth, affection and cohesiveness
amongst estranged individuals. It has to come from within! But still the
technology can be useful provided it is used to convey right message
and thereby inculcate the importance of promoting the evolution of the
present day “primitive” individualism into more evolved
individualism, which is concept and process of self-realization. The self-
realization embodies realization of one’s immortal core that is one and
continuous with the cores of the billions of individuals. It helps rise above
the fettering pettiness. It helps us get rid of meanness, which nurtures
psychological fission and separation and loneliness. It helps us see the
magnanimous role we can play in revealing the intrinsic unity to the
mankind and thereby express our true self, in our respective fields.

In fact the ascetics, who apparently are alone and in solitude, are in
communion their true self and that of the billions of citizens of the world
and also the rest of the living and nonliving universe, are not at all lonely
even in the absence of any gadgets!

How can we overcome negative or depressive thoughts?
A variety of negative thoughts keep coming in mind. Negative thoughts are
reflection of egoistic assumption that we should be blessed exactly in a way
which our conceptual framework projects!
It is necessary to be humble about our grasp of life and kind and
considerate about the sufferings of others. It is necessary to learn to
hammer our ego of being robust [simply because we enjoy good physical
health] also. It is essential to abandon the great error of fitting the
unfathomable, infinite universe and infinite number of processes in it, in
our conceptual framework, which are too frail. It is important to learn to
accept the verdict of God [or nature if you do not believe in God, by
realizing our limitations and ignorance], how much ever it may appear
unjust! It is necessary to learn the significance of the concept of submitting
our work in the heart of heart to God and adjust to the cosmic wisdom
rather than trying to defy it. It is the SANKALPA i.e. the plan of subtler
self from last births and the accumulated deeds of ours which decide our
suffering, happiness, success and failures in as much as our specific place
in he universal panorama or “stage”! We must accept the SANKALPA and
KARMA PHALA [results of our forgotten past deeds] even if they appear
wrong or unjust.

This unconditional acceptance is like accepting the ambience in which we
live. Thus if we are in water we first accept it. This usually happens
reflexly and we frantically begin to try swimming. Were we to negate the
existence of waer what would happen? Thus this acceptance does not
suggest acceptance of defeat and inaction, but appropriate and effective
way of response and action.

Further, such acceptance of our condition, opens up hundreds of
possibilities, which are concealed by our resistance or denial of a given
situation. This opening up of possibilities gives us tremendous strength and
vision for appropriate action.

To give an example, it is such denial of the ambience that frustrates many
well-meaning, sincere and dedicated scientists, leaders, artists, social
reformers etc, who develop extreme bitterness and depression in later
stages of their lives, because of failiures.

The negative thoughts that we are lowly, unfortunate, miserable would
begin disappearing along with dissolution of egoistic assumptions as we
start accepting whole heartedly the fate of our work, as well as well being.

They would gradually start disappearing as we start to realize that
somewhere deep inside we have to confront the reality with respect to life
and death. Realization of truth is always coupled with immense
fearlessness, bliss and independent of the fate of our work or any other
external factor. In simple words, it is a state when you are in communion
with God and that enables you to remain stable and strong in every
situation, which we accept as the verdict of cosmic wisdom. Moreover
since we are in communion with that cosmic consciousness it appears to be
our own desire. This resolves the problem of likes and dislikes and
automatically helps us remain steady in our goal and activity as a worship
of God or the manifestation of our conscience.
It is very true that all negative thoughts and actions do not disappear. But
there is no harm trying the ideas described in the foregoing because they
are harmless and are likely prove useful if not immediately at least in the
course of time.

How to overcome jealousy?
Some jealousy is normal. The other commonly used word for jealousy is
heartburn!
It is to some extent natural to feel jealous when we find that those
individuals who according to us are undeserving get much more than what
we [the more deserving in our own opinion!] do.

But when individual considerations take supreme place in our lives we
become increasingly mean and jealous. It becomes troublesome to others,
as well as to us. This is because we do not understand and hence
unknowingly disobey the wisdom of homeostasis and harmony. If we
understand the concept of homeostasis, then we can definitely overcome
morbid jealousy to a great extent!

Homeostasis means maintenance of various physical and chemical
characteristics of the internal environment of the body within certain range.
This is important for the health of an organism. All the cells of the body of
an organism, which perform their functions, participate in this process also.

Remember that the organism is healthy if the cells are healthy and doing
their work thereby contributing in homeostasis. Conversely the cell is
healthy if the organism is healthy.
Different body cells which when perform their roles with complimentarity
and in harmony ensure health of the organism, which in turn ensures the
health of individual cells.
The society is like an organism.
Every individual is like a cell of this organism.
Different individuals have different duties just as different cells have
different functions to perform.
When different individuals and social groups perform their duties with
complimentarity and in harmony, ensure healthy, happy and prosperous
society. This in turn would ensure the health [happiness and prosperity and
profundity] of an individual!

The control mechanisms in body which if work properly and ensure proper
homeostasis, the organism would enjoy health and the control mechanisms
would in turn be healthy.

The various government agencies and power centers in society are like the
control mechanisms, which govern the overall process of homeostasis. If
the government agencies and power centers ensure that various individuals
and social groups do their duties with complimentarity and in harmony,
then society would enjoy prosperity and profundity. This in turn would
ensure strength to the government.
Today the governments are finding it difficult to ensure “homeostasis”.
Previously, the old orders functioned as control mechanisms and ensured
social homeostasis i.e. working of individuals and social groups with
complimentarity and in harmony, by compromising the freedom of the
individuals.

With rapid rise of individualism and disappearance of old orders, a process
of petty pursuits and rat race for material gains [under the attractive name
of individual freedom, individual aspirations etc.] began to disrupt the
complimentary and harmonious transactions and relationships. Everything
within the individuals, between the individuals and between different
groups became diseased. In turn the society has become “diseased”. Every
individual has become “diseased”. The governments have also become
diseased. [Hence they are weak, short lasting and/or malfunctioning! This
is a result of rapid disintegration and disappearance of the old orders and
lack of their replacement with new appropriate and efficient orders.


Jealousy can be overcome to a great extent, if individualism is evolved into
and taken to its logical culmination, viz. self-realization. It helps in
revealing the concealed unity and harmony within ourselves as well as
outside. It helps to explore and acquire the powerhouse within you. It
brings out your innate desire to do socially beneficial physical, economic,
social and political work in your respective specialty, so that you can
simultaneously achieve personal and social welfare. Your efforts in this
direction are so satisfying that you almost no more feel jealous even if you
do not get anything in return or in fact get flak and harassment.

One of the simple ways of doing this is practicing remembrance of the
name God. Some people call it “thought anchor”. Remembering the name
of God helps us to get rid of superficial and petty considerations, born out
of ignorance and responsible for jealousy [which can actually spoil our
family life, friendships and even image, status in the society and most
importantly even physical health!]

How to overcome frustration?

It has to be appreciated that life is never static. The situations do not remain
the same. Naturally, the frustration also in most cases is temporary. It is not
at all unusual to get frustrated from time to time and overcoming the
frustrations also from time to time.

But in some cases frustration can be much severer. In such cases it is
associated with tremendous damage to one’s self esteem and a feeling of
defeat, humiliation and shame. It is associated with enormous
demoralization and diffidence. Frustration in such cases can last for years
and can prove to be abysmal and even fatal if untreated. Hence it is
essential to learn about frustration and evolve and practice the ways
[learning about it is in itself a way to overcome it] to overcome it.

What is the usual cause of frustration?
The usual cause of frustration is a setback. The setback may be in the form
of failure in examination, failure in love life or failure in one’s goal. The
nature of setback and its severity would determine the degree of frustration.
As stated earlier, in most cases the setbacks are trivial and the frustration
also mild and relatively less damaging and short lasting.
How do setbacks cause frustration?
The setbacks are usually attributed by others and knowingly or
unknowingly by you us too, to either our stupidity or to sinful behavior!
Even sad events in family such s accidents, diseases, death etc on which
may not have any control, are many times attributed to some sins in the
past. So such calamities make us additionally miserable and lowly and
ashamed and guilty. It is also true that the frustrations worsen because of
aggressive advertising that stimulates the desires and creates ever-
increasing demands, without correspondingly increasing the capacity to
fulfill those demands! This increase in unfulfilled demands makes us feel
lowly in even in otherwise acceptable circumstances. Advertisements also
tend to create and nurture the elements of competitiveness and jealousy,
which lead to frustration in the instances of failures in pursuits.

Can setbacks be avoided?
It appears that it would have been wonderful if setbacks could have been
avoided. But the nature of life is such that setback is a part of it. In fact set
backs are actually useful and help us rise above our ego. Besides they
enhance the taste of success.

It is true that in many instances the setbacks can be due to stupidity. But it
is essential to appreciate that it is not at all unusual or abnormal to be stupid
in some situations. There is nothing wrong in it. There is nothing to feel
lowly about it. It is always easy to point out mistakes and hence people
may point out others’ mistakes but that never means that they do not
commit mistakes. In fact they may be committing even worse mistakes. So
we should not let ourselves down by setbacks or insulting comments made
on our setbacks Also, we must take care not to get carried away by selfish,
stupid, maniacal a variety of wrong acquaintances around who besides
hurting can misguide and harm us.

But for our own sake it is always beneficial to keep the mind open to
suggestions and learning from other [but proper] people. If we listen to
honest and selfless advice coming from the expert in your field, then we are
likely to commit fewer mistakes. This can help us avoid many setbacks in
many instances.
But in many instances the set backs can not be prevented. Even as everyone
prefers to be perfect no one is actually perfect. Even as ideally we all feel
that we should be flawless actually we are not. In such instances if we
carefully observe, we would realize that we do not have control on the past
deeds. Therefore the only way to overcome frustration born out of setbacks
associated with the feeling of guilt and shame born out of our “sins” or
“mistakes” is, to analyze the nature of setbacks, rationally.

Setbacks in robbery and setbacks in efforts of saving a life can cause equal
degree of frustration! But the frustration in these two cases is qualitatively
different. These two examples illustrate the importance of pursuit.
Therefore we must learn to distinguish between mistakes, failure and
frustration in pursuit of excellence and the same committed in pursuit of
social destruction. The pursuit in which we suffer setbacks and as a result
get frustrated is extremely and possibly the only important thing. Our
pursuit determines quality of life! This understanding of the pursuit itself
is the first and foremost step to accept the setbacks and failures in a
dignified manner and overcome the frustration.
In some cases it is possible that you might have got frustrated because your
pursuits as well as action both were criminal and led to damaging effects on
your life. Even in such case I would urge you not to let yourself down in
your own eyes. Accept yourself unconditionally irrespective of your likes
and dislikes (or values inculcated in you right from your child hood) and
also insulting comments from others. The traditional practice of
NAMASMARAN is useful for this. We must remain concerned and
particular about proper nutrition, cleanliness, aesthetic selection of clothes,
color combinations, perfumes etc. hese help us improve self-image, feel
better and thereby overcome frustration more efficiently.

Always remember that it is never too late to start all a new and shape your
future. Instead of brooding over your past mistakes and even crimes, it is
always better to learn from them and improve. It is always nice to
remember how the robber Walya became the great sage and poet Walmiki
who wrote RAMAYANA.

The next thing is to overcome the feeling of helplessness and despair. Due
to this one starts developing a tendency to avoid people, friends, relatives
etc. This leads to isolation and deprivation of support and even the
imagination that the others think low about us i.e. treat us as lowly. This
leads to bitterness and a process of perpetual isolation, helplessness, lack of
support and bitterness.
You may try and speak about it to selected good friends but it is generally
better to talk as if you are discussing some body else’s problem and not
yours! By this way you learn about the issue without letting yourself down
in the eyes of your friends.

The last thing is to understand the difference between the realized souls
such as saints etc. and common people like us.
It is true that the realized souls are always in bliss. This is because they
work from a different level of consciousness. They are enlightenment
personified. They are like engineers and architects who do not have to
actually work like a mason (a common man).
You can take the example of a doctor and a nurse. The doctor gives
prescription and the nurse complies with it. The nature of the work of a
doctor and that of a nurse are different. The doctor may sleep peacefully
when the nurse is actually attending the patient at ungodly hours!

It has to be appreciated that just as the body consciousness [thinking that
we are mere body], makes us susceptible to fear and apprehension,
similarly entanglement in what we call as “our work” also causes
tremendous anxiety, depression and frustration. Our thoughts, work, aims
etc. are not our personal property and hence should not be taken too
seriously. Let them pass through the body, mind and intelligence! They
manifest from eternity and disappear back into eternity. Our bodies, minds,
intelligence etc. are not the doers. They are only the vehicles through
which, the so called “our work”, gets delivered! This statement is not
polemical or metaphorical. Actually speaking neither our bodies, nor our
mind nor our intelligence can even choose our parents, the environment
and the subsequent opportunities, though we may feel so. This has one
more implication. Since it is not “our”, neither is it appropriate to feel
ashamed about “our work”, or, for that matter, all that we did, would do,
enjoy or suffer, nor is it appropriate to feel proud about it. Neither is it
correct to give up and do nothing nor is it correct to helplessly and
obsessively get entangled in the work and its results. We should maintain
our “vehicles” very well and use them properly to “carry the goods”, which
we are supposed to deliver! BUT WE ARE NOT VEHICLES!
Continuation of efforts to make your perspective universal, evolve
universally beneficial policies and evolve their administration and
implementation can significantly reduce the degree of frustration and can
give at least some strength and help you to overcome frustration, in case
you have it!

Why do we indulge in or refrain from things and repent later?

It is true that many of us plan to live in one way or another. We have our
ideas about pleasures, happiness, comforts, dreams, aspirations etc. which
result from myriad of influences which act on our body, instincts, mind,
thoughts and so on. The nature of influences varies from person to person
and from one place to another. It varies from society to society. These
influences range from literature promoting celibacy to literature upholding
eroticism. They vary from preaching of asceticism to propaganda of
indulgence. They are in short, quite confusing and make it very difficult for
us to find out what exactly we want!

We keep negotiating with these influences through out our lives and while
doing so also trying to define a “state of happiness”! It has to be
appreciated that the idea of such a state is ever changing and inconstant. It
varies! In the process we keep on attributing to the state of happiness some
characteristics [which also keep on varying] and then keep on trying to
modify ourselves accordingly! Thus we keep trying to get rid of some
things and acquire some others. These things also vary from time to time!
The nature of these things varies from trifles such getting a cake of choice
to relish to controlling the desire. It varies from getting into a particular
lucrative career to leaving everything and becoming a nun. It varies from
getting a hall ticket for the examination to bunking the exam. It varies from
winning someone’s heart to marry to remaining unmarried. It varies from
acquiring a particular skill to getting rid of the same. It varies from desire
of acquiring a particular knowledge to developing disgust about the same
and getting interested in another. It varies from getting sexual gratification
to keeping celibacy. It varies from desiring to smoke to desiring to quit it. It
varies from indulging in drinking alcohol to abstaining from it.
The problem is that we are usually not able to understand the nature of our
instincts, emotions and intelligence and hence there is always a discrepancy
between what we want to be and what we actually turn out to be!

There are a couple of things, which if we understand and internalize, then
this problem could be overcome at least to some extent.

The first thing is that we must appreciate that we do not understand
ourselves. The subconscious mind is not accessible. The past beyond a
certain range is not accessible. The future is not completely predictable.
Even the influences beyond a certain range are too subtle to be recognized
and understood. We should therefore be humble and not get into a feeling
of uselessness or helplessness about failing to practice of what we think,
feel and project [we may use the word expectations, predictions etc.]. This
helps us to accept the discrepancy between our expectations, predictions,
demands, desires, aspirations and so on [in our life as well that in the life of
the others and the society] and what actually happens! It must be
appreciated that such acceptance does not mean inactive witnessing of what
happens but it means poised, and wiser response! It is usually beneficial not
only to ourselves but to others as well.

The second thing is to preserve and harness the capacity to appreciate our
ignorance and responding wisely. The time-tested remedy for this, is
regular chanting of the name of God or Guru. Regular chanting or
remembering the name of God helps us elevate ourselves above the
confusing and chaotic ideas. It helps us to overcome the gravity of our
preferences and our apprehensions. Through the practice of remembering
the name of God it starts becoming clear that the sense of guilt as well as
sense of pride result from, the deep seated ignorance of the ignorance!
Hereafter we gradually start actually internalizing the importance of
accepting the situation in personal as well as public life as it is and then
start working on it without instinctual and emotional turmoil and
intellectual confusion. This marks the beginning of true inner harmony and
freedom from the damaging and disturbing guilt and equally troublesome
agrandizement and arrogance about what we can not and what we can
achieve respectively.
Gradually we begin to appreciate that what we do is a result of the
preponderance of SATVA, RAJA and TAMA within and outside our
limited existence. Our limited thinking has no right to be proud about it and
no reason to be guilty about it. Our brain has no reason to be perplexed and
we have no reason to be sad!

There is great fun in taking life in one’s stride! [Even in making attempt to
do so!]


CONCEPTS RELATED TO SOCIAL LIFE

How can we overcome the stress caused by conceptual chaos in the
field of education?

Most of us get disturbed by what is going on in the field of education. But
we do not understand the causes of the chaos and the remedy for them.

We will be benefited if we review in brief the concept of education and
merits and demerits of the traditional education system in brief.

Education is defined in various ways but it can be safely said to have three
domains, which are as follows.
The first domain is called AFFECTIVE DOMAIN. This means the state of
mind. In simple words affective domain relates to how we feel. Thus when
our mind is full of alertness, attention, enthusiasm, buoyancy, affection,
concern, joy, tolerance, self esteem, mutual respect, mutual trust,
commitment, dedication, confidence, positive and victorious spirit, we
would call it healthy affective domain. In addition the zeal and
concentration needed in the pursuit of excellence in intellectual field,
tenacity and endurance required in skillful activities and patience and
commitment essential for satisfying and socially beneficial actions
constitute affective domain. The purpose of education is to nurture this
domain by designing suitable curricula and syllabi.
The second domain of education is called PSYCHOMOTOR DOMAIN.
This implies ability to appreciate skills and ability to perform physical and
mental skills, with speed, accuracy, elegance, ease of performance etc. This
may involve appreciation and performance of skills such as surgery,
playing a musical instrument, playing basket ball or doing carpentry! The
purpose of education is to nurture this domain through not only designing
suitable curricula, syllabi but also by providing sufficient practical and
demonstration classes with all the necessary equipment.

The third domain is called COGNITIVE DOMAIN. Cognitive domain
incorporates accurate perspective, contemplation, correct perception
understanding, conceptualization, analysis and recall of problems, ability to
evaluate, synthesize, correlate and make decisions, make appropriate
policies, plans and expertise in the management, administration, etc.

It is clear that all the domains have three components viz. Cognition
[Perception], affect [Feelings] and conation [Response].

Let us consider the traditional system in a dispassionate manner and
scrutinize the merits and demerits. It is obvious that we will not be able to
consider all the details of the system as they varied from time to time and
from place to place. But a general review of the system would help us to
overcome our disturbance! This can be done only if we rise above the petty
considerations of religion, region, caste, political power and other vested
interests. This would help us rectify the present education system.
Conversely, unless the existing education system is rectified appropriately
subsequent generations may not be able to develop the three domains of
education adequately.

Many of you may argue here that this task can not be accomplished by
common people, but can be successfully accomplished only by the
politicians, political advisors, the decision-makers and the top
administrators.

This argument is valid, but not completely. It has to be appreciated that no
statesman, no political leader, no policy maker and no administrator can
bring about change in an existing system unless, there is consensus about
these changes in the vast majority of people whose cooperation in such
matters is very vital.
So let us take at least a cursory look at the traditional system of education
in India.
The traditional education system in general ensured that:
a] Careers were not selected on the basis of monetary gains,
b] Careers were not selected arbitrarily on the basis of idiosyncrasies and
whims,
c] Some lucrative careers could not be sought after excessively, in
preference to the others,
d] All careers ensured income and production from early age,
e] All careers ensured that society was benefited,
f] All careers ensured security to all the social groups,
g] All the careers ensured intimacy and closeness between young and old in
the families.
h] All careers ensured ethical education and passage of experience from
generation to generation.
In my view these were merits.
But it is true that:
A] The traditional system was marked by deprivation of scholastic
education to many people,
B] It was also marked by apparently unjustifiable distribution of a variety
of jobs amongst different castes.
C] It did not have the infrastructure for collective scientific and
technological efforts
D] Suppressed talents and individual aspirations amongst the children and
parents from many castes.
E] It had an element of arbitrary imposition of hierarchy and exploitation.

As the education shifted from homes, home industries and farms to;
nurseries, K.G. schools, schools, colleges, universities, corporate industries,
research institutions etc.
Cognition suffered because of:
a] Huge number of students, in a single class making following three things
almost impossible. These things are i] individual attention ii] dialogue iii]
discussions,
b] Lack of adequate salary, accountability, incentive and economic security
to the teachers taking away the initiative of nurturing cognitive domain
c] Increase in alienation with respect to student’s background and aptitude
d] Lack of adequate incentive to the students in the form of creativity,
production and earning, service to the family and service to the nation,
takes away the motivation required for building up cognitive domain
e] Lack of conviction essential in the growth of cognitive domain in the
teachers and students because of outdated practical and demonstration
classes, lack of interdisciplinary dialogue and in general the irrelevance of
education to the realities of day to day life in as much as almost predictable
consecutive unemployment at the end! The lack of conviction could be
partly due to lack of participation by teachers in decision-making, policy
making, development of curricula, syllabi etc.
f] Emphasis on recall and hence rote learning thereby denying free inquiry,
reading, questioning etc. thereby directly thwarting the cognitive domain
g]] Too many examinations with irrelevant parameters or criteria of
evaluation [besides being unfair in many instances] lead to misguided and
in most cases counterproductive efforts thus adversely affecting the
cognitive domain
h] Competitions where the manipulative skills, callousness, selfishness are
given more respect, destroy the enthusiasm of growing in cognitive domain
i] Information explosion can affect cognitive domain by either causing
enormous and unnecessary burden on memory or inferiority complex
j] Pressure of interviews causing constant tension and sense of inadequacy,
right from the tender age,
k] Protracted hours of homework in schools denying the students their
legitimate right to enjoy their childhood and make them physically,
mentally and intellectually unfit to grow in cognitive domain
l] Irrelevant and unnecessary information loading in lectures in the form of
monologue, leading to suppression of the spontaneity, originality, interest
and enthusiasm so much required in cognitive development amongst the
students,

Affective domain suffered due to,
A] Isolation of the children from their parents and their domestic
environment at an early age [Making the parents also equally sad]
B] Lack of warm bonds due to huge number,
C] Cut throat competition,
D] Inadequate facilities of sports, trekking, educational tours, recreation
and physical development etc
E] Alienation from one’s social environment and culture

Psychomotor domain suffered due to
A] Almost total lack of opportunities to actually participate in skillful
activities such as drawing, painting, sewing, sculpturing, carpentry,
knitting, weaving, music, agriculture, horticulture, other handicrafts,
various sports, performing arts etc.
It is important to realize that promotion of psychomotor domain is evident
but in its caricature form. It has no concrete economic realistic basis. The
activities have no economic incentive and no productive element.

The present education system basically and almost completely prevents
a huge section of society such as teachers, students, clerks, servants,
sweepers and many others such as education inspectors, etc. from
being creative and productive. In addition it causes colossal loss of
space, electricity, construction cost and so on. In addition because of
the typical emphasis on rote learning it leads to phenomenal waste of
educational material such as paper, bags, pencils, ball pens etc.

Lack of productive element in education not only causes colossal loss to
nation but it also causes economic loss to children while suppressing and
starving their psychomotor domain! The lack of productive element and
economic incentive is a single most important cause of
1] Reduction in the dignity of labor amongst those who continue to learn,
as well as reduction in the income of the concerned families and the nation
2] Lack of education, lack of employment and starvation or criminalization
amongst those who are forced to drop out because the poor
villagers’children normally contribute to the earning of the family.
3] Inhuman suffering of those dropouts, who somehow manage to get
into cheap labor for subsistence.
It has to be appreciated that billions of rupees are spent on
construction, decoration and maintenance of schools and colleges.
Billions more are spent on payment of millions of teachers and other
staff members engaged in unproductive exercises. Billions are spent on
electricity, and so called educational material. Billions more are spent
on the exams conducted to test the “capacity and merit of rote
learning”. This way we weaken the national economy, jeopardize the
developmental activities and force millions of students to drop out due
to economic reasons and get into the hell of child labor, besides
starving and suppressing the cognitive, affective and psychomotor
domains of millions. In short, present day education system harnesses
[amongst those who continue to learn] arrogance coupled with lack of
confidence leaving all the domains viz. cognitive, psychomotor and
affective, [including creative and productive skills and physical health]
defective, deficient and underdeveloped. Further, when this education
fails to give a job, it tends to create vindictive attitude transforming an
individual into a criminal or develops frustration and transforms an
individual into a mental wreck.

It must be appreciated that some institutions and individuals are making
illustrious efforts in the direction of rectifying the education at their level.
But the chaos in the present education and the resultant conceptual stress
cannot be managed effectively, unless we propagate this conceptual
understanding about education and try to see that suitable changes are made
to nurture cognitive, affective, psychomotor and productive domains.

In short it can be stated that every school, college, university etc must
become the centers of production and service besides being centers
excellence in science, art, literature, philosophy etc.
The student must have economic incentive for what he/she is privileged to
make. Besides, everybody connected with education directly or indirectly
must be involved in production or service.
Everyday approximately
20 % of the time must be spent in production, service etc.
20 % of the time must be spent in physical activities
20 % of the time must be spent in personality development and
20 % of the time must be spent in entertainment
20 % of the time must be spent on cognitive domain
Production may be of suitable items and service can involve community
projects such plantation, cleanliness etc.
Physical activities can include sports, exercise, trekking, hiking etc.
Personality development refers to broadening of perspective through
various means such as invited guest lectures, seminars, discussions on
holistic health, educational tours and visits to places where the student gets
exposed to rapid developments in the society such as laboratories, airports,
government offices, share market, farms etc.
Entertainment could include playing musical instruments, dance, painting
or anything that makes a student happy such as mimicry, singing, story
telling, drama, movie etc.
Development of cognitive domain can include teaching of languages,
history, geography, mathematics etc with utmost emphasis on interpretation
and relevance in day to day life. Thus typical questions in the examination
of history, languages should be totally done away with. The subject such as
economics, psychology, civics, philosophy, logic, sociology etc must
include field work and made relevant to the present society.

Conceptual stress arising out of chaos in education can not be managed
effectively unless and until a situation where millions are “imprisoned”
unproductive work and millions are forced into unemployment and
inhuman cheap labor is eradicated through law and government rules,
besides public awareness.

Stress resulting from inadequate understanding of the consumer
interest

Most of us think that consumer interest is restricted to quality production,
appropriate preservation, proper transportation, fair exchange and fidelity
in advertising. This is not incorrect understanding but this is certainly not
complete understanding of consumer interest.
As a consumer in any given place or field, we should be aware of the plight
of the consumers elsewhere and in other fields. We can not be balanced,
objective and holistic in the absence of such awareness. In fact such lack
awareness tends to make us selfish, short sighted and mean. The
perspective of consumer movement becomes tubular and hence can not
give proper direction to the government perspective, policies, decision,
administration and implementation, with respect to customers every where.

In fact this is precisely what has happened to consumer movement in
developed countries. A huge section of consumers in developed as well as
many developing countries [like India] is very sensitive about its interests.
These interests are with respect to quality, preservation and pricing. No one
can argue in favor of bad quality, faulty preservation and unfair exchange
or cheating. Another concern of this section of consumers is their insistence
on fidelity with the advertisement. They insist that there should be no
exaggeration and/or falsification in the advertising. Even this point can not
be refuted. No one would justify exaggeration and/or falsification.

So this section of consumers is not just unopposed but is actually supported
all over the world enjoys and moral and ethical supremacy.

But note that this section of consumers has no perspective of global
welfare. It has always neglected the major issues such as environmental
protection, proper and universal education, world harmony, universal
brotherhood, global health, global housing, proper handing of droughts,
famines, earthquakes, floods, volcanic eruption, nuclear proliferation,
effect of pesticides and chemical fertilizers in the long run and such issues.
This section has nothing to do with the needs of rest of the mankind. It
continues to consume several times more than their counterpart in either the
same or other countries. This negligence towards the needs of rest of the
mankind makes this section selfish, short sighted, mean and callous. The
elite consumer [in as much even the poor] in India also has adopted this
selfish, short sighted, mean and callous perspective. This is why the
consumer movement [in spite of having some genuinely good elements in
it] has miserably failed at global and local level, to influence the
government perspective, policies, decision, administration and
implementation, with respect to consumers every where and every strata of
life. Few examples of such policies are with respect to prevention famines,
preservation of forests, advertisements of alcoholic beverages,
advertisements of cigarettes, advertisement of gutkha [a specially processed
tobacco that is used for chewing and which is at present a craze amongst
school children in many parts of the world] etc.

It is precisely because of this selfish, short sighted, mean and callous
perspective that many of us applaud the construction of fly over bridges in
cities while unknowingly neglecting the plight of farmers and villagers
where there is no drinking water, no proper shelter and no proper
education. We do not seem to understand that the fly over bridges is no
solution to the congestion and other problems of cities and the only
solution is the holistic development [in contrast to mercenary urbanization
of villages, and which was incidentally the dream of Mahatma
Gandhi.].
It has to be appreciated that consumer interest can not be restricted to mere
material financial gains and utility for above reason. It has to be coupled
with perspective of global welfare as a result of which balanced and
accurate policies, plans, decisions, administrative efforts and
implementation at global and local level can be evolved. In fact this
constitutes spiritual, intellectual, emotional, instinctual and physical health.

This is the only way to manage conceptual stress as a consumer. There
is no other way. With narrow perspective you can not manage
conceptual stress. Even if with narrow, selfish, short sighted, mean and
callous perspective, you seem to gain materially, ultimately you will be
the loser, materially as well as spiritually, intellectually, emotionally,
instinctually and physically. This is because majority the present
policies at global and local level are sure to entail destruction of
individual as well as the global life if not timely corrected. Your doctor
if knowledgeable enough, will endorse this, when you visit him/her
next.

Conceptual confusion about communalism

In Sanskrit there is a proverb
PINDE PINDE MATIH BHINNAH
KUNDE KUNDE NAVAM PAYAH
JATO JATO NAVACHARAH
NAVA VANEE MUKHE MUKHE

The meaning of this is simple and enlightening. It boosts the spirit of
tolerance. It implies, every individual has different intellectual capacity,
every source of water contains different water, every community has
different tradition and different linguistic expression is present in every
individual mouth!
So merely belonging to different castes, different religions or merely
following certain customs running through generations in a family and a
community etc. do not make us communal.

According to the world book dictionary, communalism refers to self-
governance of a commune or communes and this is a kind of federalism.
Communal means related to commune. But in India this word has different
connotation. In India, communalism implies disproportionate pride,
concern about one’s caste, tribe, religion or any such group and
disproportionate hatred and prejudice about those of others. This is almost
always associated with practices harmful to others. Communalism has
become an everyday problem. It has infiltrated every walk and every
stratum of life a cancer. Thus political parties, a variety of unions, various
organizations etc and associations are diseased with communalism.
Similarly, policies regarding employment, promotions, admission to
different educational careers, competitive examinations in almost every
sphere of life have been infiltrated by communalism.

To understand and overcome the menace of communalism and bring
about harmony and justice in society effectively, we have to understand
the caste system and the caste specific job distribution that has come into
existence and remained for centuries and the emergence of religions and
their impact on social life. In this chapter we will consider the development
of caste system.

In my view, the caste system in India was based on the physiological
principle of homeostasis where many different type of cells perform
different functions so as to maintain constancy of internal environment and
thereby health of the organism. Secondly it was based on the principle of
variety, complementarity and harmony in nature. Thus the emergence of
caste system was based on the observation that neither in body nor in
nature the individual components perform the same work or job. In fact this
kind of “equality” is dangerous. Complementarity of components is
important and conducive to health. This entailed distribution of different
jobs. This distribution of the jobs initially depended on the capacity.
However the distribution of jobs gradually became independent of the
capacity and started depending on one’s caste.
How could have this happened?
Firstly, it appears to me that this took place because of the observation of
heredity in nature. The mango tree gives mango fruits, banana tree gives
banana and coconut tree gives coconuts. The offspring of a tiger is tiger
and offspring of a cat is a cat. This heredity in nature was probably
extrapolated to human beings. It must have been thought that such heredity
must be working in human beings also. In fact, such extrapolation must
have been buttressed by the observations that children do carry the traits of
their parents which may include, a variety ranging from mathematical
talents to musical skills, besides physical constitution and looks. In fact
even today we use expressions such as “ There is music in his blood”,
“There is acting in his blood” “There is business in his blood “ and so on.
These expressions are based on centuries of observations. So every
community was seen or conceived as a particular organ or tissue of an
organism, which would give rise to specific type of cells.

The second reason for this change must have been due one of the most
prevalent concepts viz. KARMA PHALA SIDDHANTA. In Marathi this is
expressed as KARAVE TASE BHARAVE. In English this is expressed
through “ As you sow, so you reap”.
This concept gives a basis for why a particular child is born in a particular
community or caste. This led to the notion that those who are born in a
particular caste are born according their deeds in the past life. This lent
a conceptual foundation for the stability and continuance of the caste
dependent job distribution. So every individual was conceived as a
particular individual cell in a tissue.

Now it can be appreciated why there were restrictions on all the
communities [analogous to organs or tissues] to do a particular job.
Obviously this was to achieve social homeostasis [analogous to
homeostasis in an organism]. Clearly this was to avoid competition based
on petty selfishness and unabated personal ambitions, which could at
times, jeopardize the welfare of a society [analogous to different tissues
trying to perform certain functions and thereby endangering the
homeostasis and life an organism].
The caste system also had one more and important aspect and that was
punishment at local level. This punishment depended on the nature of
“crime” or “sin” and the verdict of the traditional beliefs, conventions and
consensus. This particular system included [in today’s context totally
unjustifiable] the punishment of outcasting.

It is well known in India that the father and mother of the world famous
saint of 12th century, saint Jnaneshvar were outcasted and forced to commit
suicide because of their “crime” of going against the then prevalent
conventions. Those who were outcasted were condemned to live as the
outcaste. This system of giving “justice” apparently did not have any
provision for the upward traffic of the outcasted “lower” castes,
though it must have forced many “upper” castes into “lower” castes
because of what was then considered a “crime”. However one does not
know with certainty whether there were any ways of absolving from
those so called “crimes”. Today these “crimes” may not be considered
even mistakes. It appears that these castes which were forced to live outside
the villages were declared untouchable. Due to the same notion of heredity,
which consolidated caste system, their progeny was also considered
inferior and forced to stay out of the village border, was made to accept
dirty jobs and were declared untouchable. This is many villages in India
used to have and still has in many regions, people staying beyond the
boundaries of the village.

The caste system has been primarily a result of all that has been said above,
though the influence of other factors such as characteristic social, political,
psychological, geographic etc. can not be totally ruled out.

 It can be clearly understood from the foregoing that the caste system in
India which deteriorated into increasingly unjust and grave perversion
was not a conspiracy as is made out to be by many individuals. The theory
that it was a conspiracy can prejudice and mislead the young and innocent
people can create division, hatred and strife amongst different castes and
can not solve problems of the millions. In fact this has been vindicated by
the history of caste-interactions in India of last several decades.
The fact that the caste system did not develop as conspiracy can be clearly
evident if following points are considered.
1] Caste system to be conspiracy, has not primarily been a result of
political wars or religious wars also. Though the influence of such
relationship can not be entirely denied. Political reasons appear too
simplistic to explain the phenomenon, which has spread all over India and
in every nook and corner of even the interior most aspects of country ruled
by extremely different rulers with extremely diverse backgrounds.
2] Caste system to be a conspiracy has not been primarily a result of
winner-loser relationship. If that had been the case then there would not
have been as many restrictions on certain “upper” castes as have been
there in India.
3] If there had been winner loser relationship between two groups then one
would have found fairly uniform characteristics amongst “upper” and
“lower” castes. This is not so. Everyone would agree that there are people
with very low capacity in so called “upper” castes and there are people with
far greater capacity ni so called “lower” castes. In fact almost all types of
people are seen in all the castes.
This applies not only to capacity but also to morality and social
commitment.
4] Caste system was not based on equality. But it was basically and to start
with not based on inequality, injustice and exploitation also. It was based
on as is said earlier the interpretation of homeostasis, heredity and
complementarity, social harmony, stability, order and well being.

It has to be appreciated that because of this, even as most of the saints did
not practice caste discrimination, religious discrimination or any kind
of discrimination for that matter, they did not condemn Indian
scriptures with codes of conduct for different age groups, different
professionals, different members of the family etc such as MANUSMRITI,
PARASHAR SMRUIT, VASISHTHA SMRUTI, NARADA SMRUTI and
so on. This was because they knew that by condemning them, the old
wisdom of social homeostasis would be lost and by supporting and
practicing it the exploitative, coercive and inhuman element would be
justified and would continue. For this reason they chose the middle way.
The saints did not make any disruptive and provoking statements
because they knew that this was not the solution to the evils of caste
system. They knew that the solution to the evils of caste system lied in
the opening of the floodgates of enlightenment for one and all. This is
why, without making any stunts and gimmicks they spent their lives in
trying to open the floodgates of enlightenment for one and all. They
suffered during their lifetime because of the harassment from callous,
rigid, orthodox and inhuman conservative elements and centuries after
their death continue to be misunderstood, misquoted, condemned and
ridiculed by many.

One does not know with certainty but from the work of the saints it appears
that the saints did see a major flaw and end of caste system [without
losing the essential concept of social homeostasis] through generalized
enlightenment irrespective of caste, religion, region etc. Appreciating
this major flaw and rectifying it is of paramount importance in really
annihilating the castes even today.

The major flaw in the caste system that rendered it extremely
exploitative, coercive and inhuman is the fact that mango, coconut,
tiger and cat do not have the choice and freedom to transcend their
mango-ness, coconut-ness, tiger-ness and cat-ness. In contrast human
beings have this potential and hence must get choice and freedom to
transcend their caste characteristics, the process which is called
enlightenment or self-realization. The saints also seem to have realized
that the children are not of the parents [to get exactly the same
characteristics or to be blamed for the “sins” of their parents], but they
come through the parents. The saints also seem to have realized that it is
a great fallacy to condemn some one as sinful because of being born in
a particular caste, punish him/her for the so called sins and so called
crimes of the past generations or past lives.

The purpose of this chapter is not to glorify or to condemn anybody, or
to describe the detailed history of caste system but to conceptualize the
main determinants of caste system and thereby take it to its logical
end. This implies that everything coercive in caste system comes to an
end and the wisdom continues.
This is because, we must remember that while destroying the caste
system, there are two diseases by which the mankind is likely to be
plagued by. These are individualism and superficiality. In the rest of
the world where there was no caste system like that in India, these two
diseases have played havoc and are continuing to do so. You will
appreciate that these two diseases have started plaguing people in
India also.
We must learn from the saints the importance of opening the
floodgates of self realization to people irrespective of caste, religion etc.
and secondly we must prepare an intellectual framework which would
evolve laws, rules and conventions by which material conditions
conducive to self realization and enlightenment would be actualized.
You would appreciate that the suffering of the victims of caste system
and the conceptual stress of ours are inseparably linked and can begin
to reduce simultaneously if the education system as suggested earlier,
is brought into practice, throughout India and world.
With respect to India, it is high time to realize that ad-hoc steps such as
reservation policy, free education [of present nature], concessions, free
food, subsidies etc. have benefited financially, a small percentage of
downtrodden and will continue to do so. But even if there is 100 percent
reservation in parliament, assemblies, jobs, promotions, admissions to
different courses and for that matter, in every possible field, it will never
solve the problems of majority of the suffering billions.

How to manage stress resulting from inadequate grasp of corruption?
Corruption is widely talked about but poorly thought over and understood.
Because of this, deceptive sense of pride, hypocrisy, guilt, confusion,
conflict, helplessness, victimization and many such things result. In short,
we are in a state of inner disharmony and discomfort or in simple words,
STRESS. This STRESS is sometimes consciously experienced but many
times goes unnoticed.

Take an example of donations. If we give donation to a school we feel we
are doing right thing for our child but we also are made to feel guilty
because it is, in most cases illegal in India.
Conversely, if we are running a school and if government authorities do the
formalities only after being bribed, then collecting donations from students
for every admission and on various other occasions becomes an
unavoidable part of our life. If we do not do this, then our work gets
delayed and we start getting depressed and frustrated.
This dilemma is responsible for STRESS.
Take another example, that of registration of a flat. We register our flats or
blocks with government because it is compulsory, but many times we land
up paying extra and get a feeling of being cheated on the one hand and
guilty of paying bribe on the other.
Conversely, if we are working in a particular government registry and if we
are “instructed” to collect funds for the ruling political party and if we wish
to retain our job in a desirable township, then making collections at every
registration is inseparable from life. If we do not do it we are likely to be
transferred to an interior place and suffer along with our family in every
possible way.
This mental tug of war is responsible for STRESS.
One can take several such examples.

Present understanding of CORRUPTION is restricted to the illegal
transactions of money, nepotism, favoritism, administrative irregularities
etc.
This [inadequate] understanding is due to influences of some so called,
advanced countries, which have amassed wealth and technology but are
deficient in the perspective of global unity and welfare.

CORRUPTION actually includes expansionist, exploitative, oppressive,
discriminatory activities. It includes the religious persecutions, fascist
massacres and harassment of craftsmen in the other countries. It includes
the reckless addition to pollution of environment and irresponsible
consumption of power at the cost of other nations. It includes apartheid
polices and their implementation. Many so called, advanced countries
selectively forget their expansionist, exploitative and oppressive activities
and the harm done by them to other countries. Through such selective
forgetfulness and the blindfolds of vested interests of their own prosperity,
they develop tubular and blurred vision and assume condescending and
self-righteous position. They either don’t understand or deliberately
neglect the fact that the aberrations in the social, political, cultural and
economic transactions amongst the different societies, develop as a
result of several factors, including invasions and exploitation to which
these so called advanced countries themselves were/are responsible.
Ignoring or not conceding, their own role, though indirect, in these
aberrations they try to impose themselves as the moral and ethical
saviors, leaders and judges on the rest of the world. They therefore,
begin to use technology and facilities to make surveys on various issues
and start passing their judgements. They try to enforce their norms, in the
form of sanctions on industries which involve child labor, or in the form of
linking labor conditions with trade pacts, through deliberations of World
Trade Organization viz. WTO. They start rating the countries in terms of
quantitative and qualitative corruption! It is equally pitiable that many of
the Indian newspapers uphold them give wide publicity to these judgments
and make every Indian feel ashamed of their motherland and guilty of
corruption. This self-pity is indeed a cause of stress for an individual and
detrimental to the national progress.

It must be appreciated that branding the developing countries as corrupt is
tantamount to saying that all the countries which have indulged in
invasions, exploitation, oppression are morally and ethically superior,
merely because they are now prosperous and do not have the same
aberrations in socioeconomic fields! One can surely find in these countries
other aberrations, which are either concealed or given legal and moral
acceptance.

If we appreciate the fact that illegal transactions of money, nepotism,
favoritism, administrative irregularities etc. are, symptoms of corruption
and invasions, exploitation, oppression of other countries and societies
constitute ACTUAL CORRUPTION, then it would be easy to deal with
corruption effectively and lead more enriched and profound life.

The “advanced” countries must understand that most of them have
indulged in corruption and are continuing to do so in different forms such
as, arms race, nuclear proliferation, supplying the arms to terrorist
countries etc, and hence are responsible for the symptoms of
corruption in the developing countries. This is because, through such
understanding alone, can they help themselves as well as the other
countries, to rectify the corruption they have indulged and have been
indulging in and thereby help, the rest of the countries, to rectify the
symptoms of corruption, prevalent there.
This would be far more beneficial for the world and for the advanced
countries themselves than the surveys [involving colossal wastage of
money], arbitrary sanctions and coercive conditions of trade, [which thwart
the progress of and demoralize the entrepreneurs, traders and common
people of the developing countries].

If the advanced countries and people therein understand this, then they
probably would develop due humility and volunteer to understand the root
cause of corruption.

 The root cause of corruption [and subsequent symptoms of corruption] lies
in:
A] Defective cognition [perception, understanding, interpretation etc.
including racist, sectarian, selfish perspective,
B] Inappropriate affect [feelings, experience, development of
superiority complex, condescending attitude etc.] and
C] Inaccurate conation [policies, plans, administrative actions etc.,
adopted to serve the interests of one society or country at the cost of
the others]

This concept can be applied to an individual [who may be either a
common man or a policy maker] as well as a country i.e. government
or people of a particular country.
These three constitute interactions between mindsets and situations.
Mindsets depend on
A] Genetic make-up
B] Experiences [physical, instinctual, emotional, cultural, intellectual etc.]

Various situations depend on
A] Various laws, rules, conventions, traditions, economic policies, political
policies, implementation of the policies etc.
B] Financial status of a nation and/or an individual
C] Social support systems
D] Family atmosphere
E] Geographical conditions social conditions
F] Legacy of the past rulers
This list can be increased but it is not essential in view of shortage of space.

We can understand how corruption and symptoms of corruption are
produced, by some examples.
With respect to India, the mindset of British rulers interacted to a
situation, and the result of this was coercive rules an discriminatory
treatment to Indian people. They neglected the development of a country.
They left behind a very alien and unproductive education system. The
mindset of subsequent Indian leaders, with very few exceptions like
Mahatma Gandhi, interacted with this situation and the result was
continuation/promotion of most of the British policies/culture. This led to a
situation full of illiteracy, diseases, poverty, unemployment, inadequate
development in almost every field (when viewed from the point of view of
a villager, or a worker or a tribal). This situation for which the rulers, their
think tank, their advisors, policy makers, implementers, administrators are
responsible has plagued the mindset of most of the common Indians. Fear,
insecurity, pettiness, hypocrisy, dishonesty, meekness, selfishness,
shamelessness, irresponsibility, indiscipline and dirtiness,
have literally shackled them.
One feature of which is increase in unemployment especially in villages
and exodus from villages to cities.

Now, in such a situation where unemployment is rampant, let us see how
mindset of a common man such as a footpath vendor is likely to work and
give rise to symptoms of corruption.
Thus if we are footpath vendors in a metropolis like Mumbai, then bribing
the police is in general integrated with our survival. If we resist this, then
our survival comes in peril. If we are police, then seeking such bribes is
intricately coupled with, if not our survival, preferred education of our
children, appropriately pompous marriage of our daughter, pampering or
entertaining our dependents, relatives, friends, living in better conditions,
avoidance of transfer etc. If we refuse to be get bribed, then the others are
likely to start distancing themselves from us and the seniors are likely to
start feeling insecure in our presence and we are either likely to be
transferred to inconvenient place or made to feel uneasy and unwise on
most occasions. Our wives are likely to remain dissatisfied, our children
not get the education of their choice, and we fall short of money when it
comes to expensive occasions such as marriage of our daughters.
If we are ordinary civilians, then witnessing this symptom of corruption
and conceding it either willingly or unwillingly is a part of our existence.
Neither reporting of particular incident nor keeping silence yield beneficial
results. Helplessness and stress usually continue perpetually.

You will appreciate that merely attacking and criticizing these instances
viz. symptoms of corruption can never solve the problem of corruption
which is deeper phenomenon affecting the situations and mindsets.
If the so called, advanced countries or those influenced by them, keep on
flagellating the symptoms of corruption, without understanding and
treating the corruption proper and its causes, then the corruption and
the symptoms of corruption not only will continue but will actually grow.
Not only criminals, but also the well-meaning people, would begin to show
the symptoms of corruption! The hypocrisy would escalate and the
symptoms of corruption become acceptable and respectable in the heart!
Similarly arbitrary measures such as trying to purify the bureaucracy and
impose rigorous rules etc. would never prove effective in reducing
symptoms of corruption and the corruption proper. This is because the so
called honesty in job [absence of symptoms of corruption] is almost
always exploited by, the actual corrupt elements [at national and
international levels] thereby facilitating perpetual continuation of
corruption and symptoms of corruption in such cases erupt elsewhere!
In Marathi there is a saying, “ ANDHALA DALATAY KUTRA PEETH
KHATAY” which means a blind [honest but unwise] individual grinds the
flour and a dog [corrupt and cunning element] eats it.
So
A] MAKE EFFORTS TO ERADICATE ROOTS OF CORRUPTION,
IN THE MINDSETS AND SITUATIONS. DO NOT DEVELOP
SENSE OF GUILT OR PRIDE BASED ON THE PRESENCE OR
ABSENCE OF SYMPTOMS OF CORRUPTION RESPECTIVELY.
FOR THIS,
B] EVOLVE AND NOURISH APPROPRIATE COGNITION, AFFECT
AND CONATION [MINDSETS] BY PARTICIPATING IN EFFORTS
TO IMPROVE THE SITUATIONS BY INFLUENCING PERSPECTIVE,
POLICIES, LAWS, RULES, REGULATIONS, IMPLEMENTATION,
CONVENTIONS, TRADITIONS ETC. AS MAY BE RELEVANT TO
YOUR FIELD OF WORK.
YOUR STRESS WHETHER NOTICED BY YOU OR NOT WOULD
STOP ERODING IF YOU DO THIS!

Employees-employer relations
Quite a lot has been written on the relationship between employers and the
employees. In today’s world this relationship is found to vary from
company to mill, village to city, public sector to private sector, farm
laborers to quarry workers and from contract labor to permanent employees
with their respective employers. In short class division as well as the caste
distinction have blurred considerably.

The working class has become quite heterogeneous. Thus the priorities and
interests of different groups of workers differ because a particular policy
simultaneously benefits some sections of working class and harms the
interests of the other sections. This is especially evident in case of working
class of affluent countries and that of developing countries. The financial
benefits tend to go to the working class of affluent countries at the cost of
working class of the developing countries.

These facts however, are either ignored, neglected, unnoticed or unattended
to. Because of this, the movements of the working class have not been able
to succeed adequately in making the society more just though working
class conditions have improved to some extent. The working class
movements have not been able to equip themselves with the power of
enlightenment and therefore, lack in fundamental sense of unity so much
required in their policies, strategies and the definition and selection of
issues for struggle. This has resulted into considerable reduction in the
strength of the working class and their movements, all over the world.

This is largely because they have not adequately developed their strategies
on the background of the vision of nonsectarian global welfare. This is
possibly because of their inadequate insight or misconceptions about
VEDANTIC philosophy. On the one hand irresponsible and cancerous
growth of consumerism [at the cost of others] has taken place and on the
other there is pathetic and helpless poverty and exploitation.
The moral and spiritual degeneration has been enormous and perpetuating.

The solution to this can come with global perspective, which can result
from Namasmaran, which according to great seers can free the society
divided into classes into truly unified and classless society. This can be
understood if one understands that it is the inner unity when and if
unraveled that can lead to external unity envisaged in the concepts of the
classless society. But mere attempt of extinction or annihilation of class
can not help any class.

Whether a person is a union leader or a sanitary worker the practice of
Namasmaran as experienced by many can almost certainly open new
avenues of development in their fields which are vital for accurate thoughts
and actions. The opportunist and selfish pursuit or materialistic
considerations of the present leadership of establishment as well as
working class and the sense of helplessness and apathy of the land-less
laborers, child laborers and such others, has to be overcome. Namasmaran
as preached for centuries can be compared to light, which is indispensable
irrespective of the types of residence (a palace, a bungalow or a hut). It
seems to have the capacity to endow the cultural profundity which in itself
is an effective and powerful weapon that can be used by those interested in
true welfare of the mankind irrespective of whether they belong to the side
of employers or employees and make them invincible.
This can be realized more fully by the practice of Namasmaran and not
otherwise. Intellectually however one can imagine how by Namasmaran
one can become more objective, and thereby more beneficial to greater
sections of society and how thereby one can gain undefeatable strength in
his efforts to free himself as well as the ailing mankind both materially and
spiritually.

Strikes in public hospitals in India
Since the strikes affect most of us, it is essential to find out the root causes
of the strikes and try to deal with them. This is one of the intellectual
measures of stress management and benefits an individual. Though it is
true that strikes occur for various reasons and from time to time, those,
which occur in public hospitals, have a specific cause that can be detected
and treated.

The cause of strikes in public hospitals is the prevalence of the two
concepts on which these institutions work. These concepts are, free medical
care and economic dependence of these institutions on the government
revenue and donations.

FREE MEDICAL CARE
The free medical care gives rise to parasitism, beggarly tendency,
meekness and irresponsibility towards personal and public health amongst
the patients.
The free medical care creates a special and extremely favorable situation
and golden opportunity for the powerful, rich and famous individuals to
exploit the government revenue and tax payers’ money.

The free medical care leads to zero returns and subsequent deterioration in
     the facilities given to patients and employees. The free medical care
     associated with perpetual absence of returns leads to unjustifiably low
     salaries, delay in filling the vacancies, delay in promotions. This state
     of affairs demoralizes the sincere and dedicated employees and
     promotes irresponsibility, lethargy, absenteeism, corruption etc.
     amongst the employees who are not paid properly due to [inadequate
     returns due to free services].


ECONOMIC DEPENDENCE OF THESE INSTITUTIONS ON THE
GOVERNMENT REVENUE AND DONATIONS
The public hospitals are not self-sufficient and do not have any productive/
commercial projects to support them. Naturally since there are no returns
either from patients or from any other source, for what is spent, the public
hospitals are always in loss.
This has lead to inadequate progress in terms of inadequate facilities,
inadequate salaries, inadequate employment in terms of number of
employees in almost every category, protracted duty hours, worsening
working conditions, worsening of staying conditions for the employees and
crowding of patients due to huge patients/employee ratio.
All these factors have lead to deterioration of the quality of medical care. In
fact because of this a large number of lower middle class and even poor
patients turn to private practitioners, consultants and hospitals.

This deterioration can be overcome by trying to make the public hospitals
self-sufficient. For this, the concept of free medical care has to be revised
and productive/commercial activities are undertaken.
It is high time that the public hospitals are not run on FREE BASIS. This
would bring adequate revenue to ensure progress in terms of adequate
facilities, adequate salaries, appropriate employment which could ensure
normal duty hours, improvement in working conditions, improvement in
staying conditions for the employees and preventing excessive and many
times [because the services are free] unnecessary crowding of patients. The
patients should have to pay for the medical service they get.

One may raise the objection that this is difficult to implement in case of
very poor, helpless, unsupported patients. It is very true no sensitive and
sensible individual would think of doing it as well. These patients who are
in agonies, in emergencies, or helpless etc. should be made exception and a
separate arrangement can be made for them. But in most other cases the
problem can be overcome by making provision for payment through
“services” or soft loans.

Another way to make the public hospitals self-sufficient is by buttressing
them with productive / commercial projects. One can think of more
innovative plans as well.

This is important because:
A] it would inculcate a sense of responsibility towards one’s own health,
towards public funds, towards public services, amongst the patients.
B] it would generate the sense of accountability, satisfaction and fulfillment
amongst the employees
C] It would ensure optimal progress in medical care
D] It would improve the lives of patients as well as employees
E] It would make the revenue hitherto squandered on free medical care
available for other developmental work thereby facilitating national
progress.
CONCEPT OF FUNCTIONING OF A MUNICIPAL BODY
The story of a hen we have heard
It used to give eggs, which were of gold
Its greedy owner killed the hen
And he repented forever, in vein.

 The moral of the story is that, if we do not care for an institution or
 the city, on which our own as well as that of others’ survival is
 dependent, then it is suicidal besides leaving behind abyss for our
 future generations.
 Let those, who are adopting helpless attitude of witnessing, as well as
 those, who are in the frenzy of amassing wealth for their own children
 realize, that it would be a hell in which their children would have to
 live in. This is because whether rich or poor everyone citizen would
 be leaving in the hell of pollution, grave infectious diseases,
 dangerous diseases of life style, perversions such as cheating, frauds,
 violence in different forms and a variety heinous crimes born out of
 the pettiness-the legacy they get from their parents. In addition there
 would be many more other evils disrupting the whole social, family
 and individual life.
 We i.e. administrators, employees, union leaders, general public and
 political leaders-if do not take cognizance of this and do not act
 promptly and appropriately then our future generations will never
 forgive us.
 As administrators we should be clear in our concepts of holistic
 health and try to impart it to our people. This necessitates avoiding
 two extremes, viz. mercenary and corrupt transactions and totally
 free service.
 One has to understand here the difference between charitable,
 professional, commercial, mercenary and corrupt.
 Selfless services given to people are generally considered charitable.
 Without going into the depth of this it has to be accepted that such
 selflessness presupposes existence of institutions which would sustain
 such selflessness. Even the freedom struggle was sustained by many
 institutions private and public as well as individuals.
However, today honest charity has come in peril because of the
onslaught of vested interests. The purpose of honest charity is usually
defeated by vested interests. This is especially evident in squandering
of money under the garb of charity, involved in subsidy, free services
etc. This kind of squandering public money is disastrous to the well
being of the MC and the people, honest taxpayers, who live under its
jurisdiction and those benefited [in whom disastrous beggarly,
irresponsible and parasitic attitude is developed].
Professional activity presupposes honest service and commensurate
compensation. Commercial activity involves provision of quality
goods or services in a commercial set up that involves proportionate
profit or commission. In both of these there are certain codes of
conduct or conventions which are observed and they are beneficial to
both parties and hence generally not detrimental to the society.
Mercenary activity involves transactions within legal framework but
involve mere and disproportionate profits at the cost of customer and
the people. Corruption involves transactions, which are illegal and
detrimental to those, who indulge in it [as they get dehumanized by
killing the humane element within themselves], to the institution and
the people working in it [as their welfare come in peril] and the
people whose development suffers.
At present the municipal corporations [MC] are running hospitals,
schools, colleges, medical colleges and is maintaining gardens and
many other tourist spots etc at the cost of taxpayers.
MC should adopt professional and hence truly benevolent approach
and immediately start charging at least nominal fees for providing
services and/or goods. This is not merely for getting revenue but for
nurturing the sense of responsibility and understanding towards the
value of services for which somebody pays. It must be appreciated
that the well being of hospitals, medical colleges, municipal schools,
offices, tourists spots such as gardens, caves, museums, zoos etc do
not merely suffers because of the free-ship but actually leads to
corruption, illicit and unlawful activities and so on. One need not
make a list of examples here as it can become obvious even if one
considers the maintenance of hospitals, colleges, schools offices etc.
and tourist spots such as caves, museums, gardens and zoos [which
have become plagued with unlawful activities]. It has to be
appreciated that the sickening of these institutions leads to cancerous
growth of elements, which are commercial, mercenary or corrupt in
nature.
The revenue from this should be utilized in improvement in all these
institutions, the employees, the plants and the animals therein as well
as the people in general.
The concept of professionalism also includes incorporation
professional element in running these institutions. Thus, the
schools, colleges, libraries, offices and any other buildings wherever
feasible, should be made available for professional and even
commercial use on non-working days and also at nights. This can get
more revenue as well as generate more jobs.
The incorporation of professionalism in running these institutions also
involves understanding and introducing element of production in
maximum number of jobs, which are involved in mere paper work or
any other type of non-productive work. There are many departments
in MC, which are totally unproductive [and consume tremendous
revenue making it impossible in time to come, to fill vacancies, give
incentives such as bonus and make new employment].
It is essential that some attitudinal changes be also adopted in this
process.
As administrators we must get rid of sense of insecurity, fear,
cynicism and despair.
We must try and convince the people concerned about the policies,
plans and administrative strategies, which will be in the interest of
society and the MC. It is also essential to stop praising us on the basis
of petty achievements [while neglecting major failures] and giving
excuses.
As employees, It is high time that we learn our role in the
development and welfare of the society and our responsibilities
towards it and become irresponsible, irregular, accountable, sincere
and so on. Because this makes us lose the public sympathy which is
so much essential for fighting against injustice. We should be
interested in our own well being as well as that of the institutions, on
which our survival depends. We should not get lured by mere short-
term economic gains, which are usually at the cost of the departments
of MC in which we work, people and us.
As union leaders we must learn that we do not choose the easiest way
    of luring the employees with short-term economic gains, merely for
    our survival in view of the rabid competition in this field with respect
    to which union leader can give more short term economic gains. We
    must do our duty towards the employees in terms of giving them the
    education of politics and their role in a broad political scenario and
    broaden their vision, which is otherwise likely to become tubular and
    petty. Whether we like or not this pettiness breeds indifference
    towards national, social and even regional interests. This vision is
    either directly or indirectly responsible for success of movements
    nurturing casteism, sectarianism, religious fanaticism and so on. It is
    this fact which has made the labor movements unpopular and in most
    instances ineffective and unsuccessful on the one hand and successful
    but damaging to others on the other. We as union leaders if continue
    to do this, then one day may find ourselves in deep trouble. The
    employees and their generations to come besides the general public
    are going to blame us forever. Our leadership of course would come
    to a humiliating end without fail!
    As general public we are too much engrossed in our own problems
    that the problems of the city appear beyond our reach. In some cases
    it is true. But in general we must learn to voice our opinion and as far
    as possible studied opinion about public and social issues [and not
    remain interested only in public issues!]. We must realize the
    importance our contribution towards the decay and death or growth
    and prosperity of the society we live in and the city and its
    administration viz. MC, which has sustained us. We must participate
    in the cleanliness of the city and its environment.
    As political leaders we should not remain biased and nurture the
    vested interests of our voters and those patronizing us. This
    jeopardizes the developmental activities. Partisan interest can be
    overcome if one resolves to do so. Seeking proper advice for inner
    growth and our own holistic health is one way of doing this.

CONCEPTS OF ABSTRACT NATURE

Is it true that KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA, justifies injustice,
exploitation and inequality?
Let us try to understand KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA properly then
decide whether it justifies injustice, exploitation and inequality and whether
it is valid today or not.

It is essential to appreciate why it is criticized severely and is not quite
popular today. The possible reasons for this are as follows.
1] First thing is that our ego prevents us from accepting or agreeing with
KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA is that such acceptance appears to it
amount to a] accepting the present situation [PHALA] even if it is
unpleasant and b] accepting the link between or cause and effect
relationship between the present unpleasant situation and our past
(mis)deeds, referred to as KARMA. Obviously this is because we do not
want our misfortune to be theoretically justified on the basis of our faults or
misdeeds as we find it insulting! Isn’t it true that our usual unspoken
sentiment is that we are always immaculate, accurate, righteous and
virtuous? Even when we “accept” our faults, it is only because we need a
face of modesty for gaining social acceptability!

2] This is also because the effect i.e. PHALA does not follow the KARMA
immediately and hence does not fit in the usual concept of cause and effect.
The relationship between KARMA and PHALA is not as simple as a
chemical reaction between hydrochloric acid and sodium hydroxide.
Therefore it is not easily comprehensible and predictable. But the
discerning readers would appreciate that all the effects need not follow the
causes immediately. In clinical medicine it is not at all unusual to find that
many times there is a gap of several years between the cause of a disease
and its manifestations. There are many genetic disorders, which manifest
several years after the birth even when their causes are present in the genes
right from the time of conception!

3] The third reason why this concept does not appear to be acceptable is
because of our own kindness. It is painful for us to see social evils such as
diseases, poverty, crimes and such many things in society. We feel that
everybody should be happy. We find it difficult to digest the fact that some
people suffer throughout and some seem to always enjoy. This is especially
so when we find that those who are good hearted persons according to us
are seen suffering in life, whereas as those who are rogues according to us
appear to enjoy! This disturbs us and we start feeling that KARMA
PHALA concept is a baseless justification of status quo. Obviously this is
because we do not know the link between KARMA and PHALA.

4] Fourth reason is that when we get emotionally charged, we immediately
get attracted to the concept of equality either on our own or because of the
propaganda done by, a variety of self-styled conscience keepers of the
society. The propaganda is so powerful that we are unable to see the fallacy
in the concept. We start believing blindly that there are only two choices
viz. equality and inequality. We forget that there had never been equality in
the past and there is no equality anywhere in the world even today.
We do not understand that there can not be can not be equality in terms of
identical incomes, identical houses, identical jobs etc. We do not realize
that just as artificially imposed discrimination and hence inequality is cruel
and barbaric, arbitrary insistence for such equality is absurd and fanatic.
We do not understand that though discrimination is demonic, differences
are not. We do not appreciate that beyond equality and inequality there is a
third and wiser concept viz. harmony. Hence unity in diversity and
harmony in the different groups is natural and desirable. Just as every tree
in universe is different and the insistence that they should be same is
irrational, in the same way insistence on the equality of every individual is
unreasonable. We do not appreciate that opportunities of education, careers
and material progress should be abundant and opportunities of
enlightenment to choose socially and individually beneficial opportunity
should also be abundant! But this requires transcending the hypocritically
perpetuated of concept of equality and cruel practice of inequality.

KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA is a law that links millions of different
events in the space and time. It therefore also gives an idea about the
characteristic and unique though not intelligible in terms of details, link of
events intrinsic to every person’s life, which is different from that of the
others! Every one of has a unique place in universe.
KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA is nothing else but appreciation of the fact
that everyone is unique.
Having said this, what do we do about the suffering in the society? Should
we witness it indolently and callously?
No. It has to be appreciated that even as every individual life is unique
availability of time, earth, water, food, growth, reproduction are common
features to every living being. Similarly even as every one of us is different
yet everyone requires must get a chance to grow,heahily in every possible
way! In short, even as we concede the KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA, it
does not mean that we sit idle, but we make endeavors for the
empowerment, growth and progress of everyone in his/her own unique
way.
In fact KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA teaches us to accept our
responsibility for the pleasures and pains in our lives as well as concede
and respect every individual life as unique and respect it. This in contrast to
developing patronizing, condescending attitude and feelings such as pity,
mercy on the one hand and feelings such disgust, hatred, condemnation etc
on the other.
It teaches us to try to promote policies, plans, programs etc. which would
benefit everyone in terms of prosperity, profundity and real empowerment,
growth and progress.

Thus KARMAPHALASIDDHANTA teaches us to look at life [ours as
well as that of the others] as it is and appreciate and concede the
uniqueness and thereby helps us to overcome tendencies to make designs,
plans and programs based on short sight and inadequate grasp of life, for
our life and that of the of the others. In fact this gives us strength to
overcome disturbance arising out of the discrepancy between our subjective
and hence deficient schemes and the objective reality. We learn to accept
the reality and act on it according to our unique capabilities.

This can become clear from the fact that I am writing this i.e. present
situation [PHALA] as a result of my characteristic efforts in past
[KARMA] and many are doing other things [PHALA] according to their
past [KARMA]. You are reading this [PHALA] according to your past
[KARMA]!
So every one of us is unique and hence deserves unconditional respect and
love. Hence prophets, visionaries, saints shower everyone of us-even the
criminals- the sinners, with profound love and blessings.
CONCEPTS OF SUPERSTITION, FAITH AND RATONALITY

It appears that everywhere in the world there are believers and
nonbelievers. These words obviously relate to belief in God. Belief in God
may be branded as superstition by some nonbelievers and the believers may
brand non-belief in God as heretic. Actually belief or non-belief in God are
subjective perceptions of individuals. Moreover they do not determine the
course of life of an individual. Thus a person can be paranoid and criminal
even if he/she calls himself/herself believer and a person can be decent
even if he/she says that he/she is a nonbeliever. Therefore in most cases
such belief or non-belief in itself does not guarantee good or bad behavior
and hence it is always better to grant the others the privilege to either
believe or not believe in God.

But there are instances when the nature of belief (or so-called non-belief,
because while proclaiming non-belief actually belief in the nonexistence of
God is proclaimed!) becomes fanatic and even antisocial. It is in such
circumstances that there manifests criminal intolerance towards the opinion
of the others. Such fanaticism usually thrives on superstition. The
superstition is nothing else but unreasonable, unrealistic and adamant belief
in a particular phenomenon even when the opposite of it is objectively
proved, repeatedly and in several places.

The belief as well as the non belief, assume the dimension of a superstition,
when the belief of the believers and the non belief of the nonbelievers
(which is actually belief in their petty self or the petty self of their leader)
lead to killing of the others. The believers as well as non-believers in such
circumstances are actually engaged in capitalizing on the weakness of a
common man. The nature of activities of the fanatic believers as well as
nonbelievers is always mean, deceptive, full of ulterior motives and
dictatorial and demeaning the people.
It is interesting to note that in the case of fanatic believers as well as non-
believers it may assume formation of terrorist groups. It may take the form
of false propaganda. It may take the form of deification of an ordinary
charlatan in case of believers and extreme glorification of a political leader
in the nonbelievers. It may take a form of selling false miracles, promises
and forecasts in the case of believers and it may take the form of selling
“make believe dreams” in the case of nonbelievers.
It can be appreciated from the foregoing that superstitions are born in
maniacal and petty minds and thrive on the petty and weak minds. They are
not restricted to any religion, cult, party, organization constituted by
believers or nonbelievers alone.

While thinking about belief and non-belief it is interesting to note that most
of our activities are knowingly or unknowingly centered around faith.
Thus, there is
faith in our mind about our parents, our children, our relatives, our
acquaintances, our teachers, our doctors and so on and so forth. In fact
large section of our life is based on and determined by faith or belief. So let
us (whether we are believers or nonbelievers) understand what this word
faith or belief meant to most of the religions. This may help us to be
tolerant and save us from going to the stage of superstitiousness and
fanaticism.

Traditionally total faith either in God or in the ‘Guru’ is equivalent to total
submission of ego or total surrender of one’s petty self. This submission
reduces the unleashing of one’s petty self. In today’s times there is always
a possibility that non-belief as well as belief may actually be devotion to
the petty ego of one’s own or that of another. This can prove to be selfish
and exploitative on the one hand and damaging or destructive on the other.
Hence in view of paucity of reliable counseling or gurus, it is better to
believe in no body and instead choose NAMASMARAN or name of a God
so that one can develop a thought anchor and gradually learn to overcome
one’s petty ego and thereby selfishness and foolishness. Thus we can
overcome the maniacal petty traits and also the petty and weak traits within
us as well as others ourselves and thereby protect and save oneself and also
the others from the menace of superstitiousness and fanaticism.

In general one can roughly observe three stages with respect to
development of an individual in terms of faith.
The first stage is that of ignorance. In this stage, the person, his thoughts
and his actions are centered around his petty self and flow automatically in
total lack of awareness of one’s true self. This stage is in one sense that of
child like innocence and not that of malice and viciousness.
The second stage is beginning of awareness of one’s true self in terms of
love and compassion for the others and the petty self in terms of sexual
passion, lust for power etc. This is associated with struggle between the
two elements classified as divine and devilish or godly and demonic. This
stage may be associated with certain norms, conventions, precepts and
practices such worship, chanting the name of God etc to struggle for rights
of the downtrodden, independence struggles etc which promote divinity
and to contain the petty self as against those which promote the unleashing
of the petty self, such as exploitation, riots, looting, drug peddling,
terrorism etc!
The third stage is that of efforts to realize the aphorism that essence of the
universe and the essence of an individual are united and continuous. One
begins to try to experience the merger in the ocean of love with eternal life.
One tends to verify whether the Namasmaran i.e. remembering the name of
God takes us from the firm illusion of transient fragmented disunity to the
realization of the eternal reality which unites and “governs” the universe.
       Having said this much about faith and superstition, let us understand
the meaning of rationalism and its importance, scope and limitation.
       The development of analytical thinking, the pursuit of intellectual
verification, the passion for intellectual conceptualization, the advent of
accumulation of factual information etc. have benefited the mankind
tremendously. This understanding is important in stress management also.
We can understand this by an example.
       Imagine swimming pool, with a facility of a nice diving board.
Imagine beautiful steps to reach that diving board. Imagine that you can not
swim unless you dive! Now, swimming in the pool after diving
wonderfully and enjoying it is like managing stress. The steps to reach that
diving board are like rationality or intelligence. Those of us who do not
climb the steps obviously cannot swim. Irrationality and blind belief are
hurdles in the management of stress.
Similarly those who climb the steps and reach the diving board, but do not
jump from it can also not swim. Getting imprisoned in intellectual
framework or one’s rationality [without realizing that it has its own
limitations] is being blind to millions of possibilities which are beyond the
range one’s own intelligence and hence also can act as a hurdle in stress
management.
Climbing the steps, reaching the diving board and jumping from it [getting
freed from the enslavening shackles of one’s own paradigms and
intellectual frames], help one efficiently manage the stress!!
For getting this point it is important to appreciate the difference between
being rational and rationalist.
Being rational, as everyone understands is making intellectual efforts to
unravel the truth while simultaneously conceding the scope and limitations
of the methodology. Being rational involves awareness about one’s
limitations. Because, it is a fact that there are limitations, to the capacity, of
the human neurophysiology
Being rationalist is (as far as I understand) harboring the belief that
everything in life must be governed in what that person feels is rational.
Rationalist seems to forget that lot of things are quite irrational and yet
extremely beautiful and valuable aspects of human civilization. Take for
example the unbounded love defying all rationality between Romeo and
Juliet. Rationalist (again, as far as I understand) appears to denigrate or at
least disapprove, human transactions, which have instinctual basis,
emotional basis and intuitive basis.
One of the classical examples is that of the faith between a wife and
husband. In absence of such faith the wife or the husband would have to
provide the partner with proof, evidence, witness etc for her or his all
day to day activities.
I am sure that rationalist are in most instances driven by their conscience
and are very humane. But I am trying to voice the flaw in their
assumptions.
In nutshell, rationality has obviously contributed to the development of
human civilization. But even the rationalist thinking also has done a very
good job when it comes to opposing the crass superstitions (conducive to
cheating and exploitation). But rationalistic approach has the potential to
contribute to disintegration of interpersonal faith and trust. In the process of
being inquisitive about facts and principles governing them, we ought not
to get carried away by rationalistic frenzy, which can make us skeptical and
suspicious about the finest of reality viz. the intrinsic unity of mankind.
Rationalist frenzy can lead to misconceptions about the traditional practices
such as Namasmaran. Imprisonment in one’s intellect can lead to suicidal
notions that Namasmaran is an intellectual liability. Such thing is possible
  because of cancerous growth of unenlightened intellectual process.

  Traditional practice of Namasmaran has the potential (as repeatedly taught
  by the seers) to enrich us with the strength and wisdom to develop and use
  all our faculties including intellectual in a healthy and socially as well as
  individually beneficial manner.

Is it useful to find out degree of pleasure or sadness?
Yes. It is quite a useful thing to do.
This is because the quality of life can be improved and happiness in life can
be multiplied by this simple endeavor. This is how we can actually
experience it.
Most of us experience boredom, depression, restlessness, vacuum, sense of
loss, sense of having wasted life and so on. This is because we are not
satisfied with our achievements. We feel that that we have not lived to the
best of our own expectations and of those whom we love and respect.

But this stage which comes sometime around the age of forty five and many
time corresponds to the age of menopause [cessation of monthly cycle] in
women can be overcome or prevented by learning to find out the degree of
pleasure or sadness in any given activity that we do.
We can find out the degree of pleasure or sadness from its intensity, its
duration and its impact on the surrounding society.

Thus small things such a tasty dish gives pleasure but it lasts for a short time,
its intensity has its own limits and its influence on the society is minimal. In
childhood we enjoy these things and that is quite normal. [But if we see a
middle age mother or a father, fighting for a chocolate or ice cream with
children, we would surely feel that it is abnormal!] Compare this activity with
a discovery of a vaccine or a socially beneficial concept. The intensity would
be tremendous, duration would be spreading over years and influence could
be on millions.

As and when we grow, we gradually and intuitively learn to find out the
degree of pleasure. This is also called as acculturation or getting cultured. In
fact the quality of our life can be easily judged by the aim that we have and